drew232 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 She dumped me after our third date and now she's telling me that she wants to pursue a friendship. That's just not gonna work for me... Do you think it's okay to tell her straight up that it's not happening? Or should i Just stop talking to her? What would be the better option? I'm thinking something along the lines of "Sorry but I'm looking to date right now".
Grumpybutfun Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 She dumped me after our third date and now she's telling me that she wants to pursue a friendship. That's just not gonna work for me... Do you think it's okay to tell her straight up that it's not happening? Or should i Just stop talking to her? What would be the better option? I'm thinking something along the lines of "Sorry but I'm looking to date right now". "Consolation friendship mangled out of rejection doesn't interest me. I have friends, have a nice life." This is just a way to make her feel better for rejecting you, the offer is shallow. Good luck, Grumps
Mr.Pine Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 She dumped me after our third date and now she's telling me that she wants to pursue a friendship. Andrew, More intel is needed. Did you bump uglies at anytime during the 3 dates? If you did, she's telling you you're a lousy lay and she is letting you down easy. If you didn't get past 2nd base, then why do you even care? Go NC and forget her.
Author drew232 Posted March 24, 2014 Author Posted March 24, 2014 Andrew, More intel is needed. Did you bump uglies at anytime during the 3 dates? If you did, she's telling you you're a lousy lay and she is letting you down easy. If you didn't get past 2nd base, then why do you even care? Go NC and forget her. No, we never made it past kissing. And I care because I liked her a lot and I think her offer is a bit of a slap in the face.
sooshi Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 Why did she dump you? If you like her a lot, then why can't you be her friend?
Author drew232 Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 Why did she dump you? If you like her a lot, then why can't you be her friend? because i like her a lot that's why.....
Chi townD Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 because i like her a lot that's why..... And for this very reason is why you can't be friends with her. You cannot be friends with her if you have any romantic feelings towards her. Best to just not say anything and just move on. I mean, I have a feeling that her "olive branch" of friendship was nothing more than a gesture to ease her guilt of dumping you. Chances are, she doesn't really mean it.
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