eh7394 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 Well it's been about 6 months since my girlfriend broke up with me. She was starting her first year of college I was going on to my second. She ended up breaking up with a little less than two weeks after going away. She did it over a text and gave me a bunch of reasons that were all over the place. I didn't immediately unfollow her on any social media so I ended up seeing that she was dating someone else about 3 weeks later. I asked her about because I didn't think she would do that seeing as one of her reasons for breaking up was that she wanted to be single in college for a little. So anyways I wasn't talking to her and I went NC and unfollowed her on everything. Well winter break comes up for both of us and she let's me know that she got a job with me. I didn't really think twice about it because as a broke college kid I figured she got a job wherever she could but after a little time went on I thought about it more because we live in a pretty big town and there's about 50 hundred places she probably could have got a job at. But anyways I didn't let it bother me that much until we had first shift together. And she had the nerve to text me during it and ask me if I was gonna keep ignoring her. At that point I wanted to freak out because she basically broken heart with no real explanation and started dating someone else. Also we never really fought always were laughing when we were together. I will say she was well outta my league lol she is a very beautiful girl. And to top it all off just the other night she like every single picture I've posted on Instagram since the break up.... Now mind you she doesn't follow me and I'm assuming that she's still with the same guy which a mutual friend of both of us said he's from a European country so idk how that's gonna work out for her when they're done college of they make it long. She has never been to date for a while. Before me her longest relationship was maybe 3 months. We dated for 1.5 years total with a little split in between. But both times when she broke up with me I wished the best for her and never left it on bad note and haven't bad mouthed or anything even though I probably have right too and my friends don't understand why I don't. But that's just me so I let it go. The only thing I can't let go is her for some reason. I thought I was doing great and wasn't worry about her until the whole instgram thing but now it's all I think about it seems like. So as of right now I'm pretty confused. The few of friends I've told think she was drunk when she liked all my pictures but they also tell me that she probably misses me too. I don't see how though considering she has a bf and from our mutual friend she seems really happy with him. So I don't know what to think. Anyone have any ideas? At this point I just want to forget about her but all my friends are convinced if she came back id take her back and they tell me I'm stupid for thinking that way. I posted on here before about everything she put me through.
Chi townD Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 Yeah, she's always felt guilty on how she handled things. I mean, breaking up with you over text (which is lame as hell). Lying to you as to why she wanted to break up. Calling her out when you caught her dating so soon after the break up. Therefore, she knew you discovered the reason why. And now the guilt is at the forefront because she's actually seeing you live and in person. The one thing most girls hate is when they think that there's a person on this planet that doesn't think that they are a nice person or even hates them. She's trying to get you in the friend zone to ease her own guilt. Don't give her the satisfaction. By you staying NC, you're teaching her a lesson. That you can't go around treating people the way she treated you and expect people to be okay with it.
Author eh7394 Posted March 24, 2014 Author Posted March 24, 2014 Yea I completely agree with that. I just see her as the one that I'll never truly get over. Maybe a few years down the road I get married or whatever I still think she'll always have a place in my heart as corny as that sounds. She was my first love and I just went through so much with her during the relationship. We both had our own struggles and I can never thank her enough for being there for me and I think she thinks the same way. That's why it's so hard for me to just grasp the fact that she could break up with someone who invested so much time and emotions into her and turn around and date someone three weeks later. Now for the NC I did send her text asking he why she liked all my pictures. It wasn't really a big deal for me. I'm just curious because she still has boyfriend and it's pretty strange to me that if you have a significant other that you would be liking all your exes pics at 3 in the morning. Anyway I ended the text saying if your not gonna respond than just stay off of my stuff because there's a reason we don't talk or follow each on anything. She probably knows I still love her. That doesn't mean I want to be her friend or even get back with her for that matter.
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