xSarahx Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I haven't been with my boyfriend not even a year yet, we jumped into the relationship, moved into an apartment together and since the beginning of the month I finally realized this is not where I want to be in life and I don't see a life or future with him. He is very insecure about himself therefor his insecurities gets in the way of our relationship because he is constantly fearing of 'loosing me', he is controlling and very highly jealous. He is a very sweet caring guy and doesn't treat me wrong in anyway which makes this hard for me. We have been together for 9 months, we live together, I have no friends, we are constantly together all the time, the only time I am not with him is when I go to work for 5 hours but even then he sometimes comes to visit me at work due to him having a 'bad dream' about me cheating so he comes to check up on me... I tried to break up with him a couple times now and every time I tried he attempts to kill himself (he has a past of attempting suicide) he says he will not go to work, he will not pay rent he gives up with life and its not worth living. When I was in a previous relationship similar to this I packed my bags and my cat and walked out and stayed with a friend, I'm temped to do the same with this relationship but I feel like a bad person if I do this again but I am unhappy in this relationship and every time I try to talk to him it becomes an immature threat of going to kill himself because I don't want to be with him. What should I do?
Toddbt12y1 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 Call the police next time he threatens suicide. Never play with that. Get away from him. Do not stay with a person due to threats that they make. You do not need to be confined into this relationship, certainly isn't no gemm. You might just want to go out and stay with your friend. Ignore, but do not take lightly, his childish threats.
Author xSarahx Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 I was in another relationship for 5 years and I ended up walking out because I stayed in a loveless relationship for about 6 months before leaving, a month before I left that relationship he also threatened to kill himself, I packed my bags, grabbed my cat and walked out. I feel like I am going to do the same thing with this relationship but I feel bad because I have done the same thing with my previous relationship, its hurtful of me to do this and I hate to do it but I can't take anymore of the threats. I just want an easy simple breakup, I don't know why it can't be like other breakups I read on here they don't seem to end in threats of them killing themselves or not even a threat.
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