Do I Ask His Buddies What Happened? He Says He Had A One Night & Can't Remember

[harleygirl92156]

OK, he told me about the affair. Who, Janice, doesn't remember last name. When, a long time ago, the night he want out with John and Andy (that was many, many times), Why, he was drunk. Where, some town that starts with a B in the back seat of a car in the parking lot.

 

He says he doesn't remember anything else, how they got together if he came on to her or her to him, if she was old or you, ugly or pretty, skinny or fat. All he remembers is crawling out of the back seat after having sex.

 

His two BUDDIES know, but I can't. So what does everyone think. Should I talk to the Buddies or just accept the fact that he told me what he did and let the rest go. I think he is hiding the fact that he came on to her and that she was young, skinny and pretty. I want to know the whole story.

 

So what do ya think. Be honest. I can't be more hurt than I already am.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by harleygirl92156

I want to know the whole story.

 

no you don't want to know whole story...

 

YOU know he is lying, WE know he is lying and HE knows he is lying about not knowing the details.

 

What is most impt in this situation is how YOU deal with it and the actions YOU do or do not take.

 

good luck

alpha

[savethedrama4allama]

I think he's a piece of crap and you should just let it (and him) go.

 

Doesn't matter what she looked like, it is absolutely no reflection upon you. Case in point: Hugh Grant getting busted with that horrendously ugly prostitute when his girlfriend was Elizabeth Hurley.

[Cecelius]

I say keep him since he is clearly a sexual dynamo. If I was that drunk as to not recall such facts, I doubt I would have had the physical ability to consumate the betrayal...