figuringitoutx Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 For the sake of getting this out somewhere where somebody might understand what I'm dealing with, here it goes. I miss my ex boyfriend. I miss him plain and simple. I know that i"m better off without him and that it wasn't the right relationship for me, but I miss him. I've blocked him (and his entire family.) on facebook. We've been NC for almost a year (broke up two or so years ago.) and really I have no reason to be missing him. I just do. I miss everything about him. Maybe I just miss our relationship, I don't know. It was a first love kind of a thing and I was young and naive and who knows. I just miss him. Really, really badly and it's been especially bad these past few days. I know that NC is best for us. Our relationship ended on a bit of a sour note and I don't know. Is this normal? or am I just crazy? I've dated a few other guys and I haven't clicked with any of them or seen them as long term relationship material, you know? Who knows. anyway, thanks for reading/listening. 1
Omei Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 (edited) Its normal I miss my ex a lottt its been over a year, I miss everything about him too, even the bad things about him, I have dated a few times but there's never a click so im stopping again. I have no clue how to make the feeling go away, some people say time some people say change your life style, but what if your love can just never stop dispite doing those? I have no clue. I am starting to believe when you really loved someone its just gonna live with you. Scary reply but so far I've only been able to accept its over but not get over by feelings for them. Oh and im not saying it hasn't gotten easier it has to live without them in my life but my feelings of caring are as strong as the day he left. Edited March 24, 2014 by Omei
David87 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I know it's hard because I miss my ex to, not a day goes by without thinking about her. People that we really loved will be forever in our hearts and that sucks. 1
Omei Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I know it's hard because I miss my ex to, not a day goes by without thinking about her. People that we really loved will be forever in our hearts and that sucks. I wish I could go eternal sunshine of the spotless mind on my ex.
lamis Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I wish I could go eternal sunshine of the spotless mind on my ex. Of course, that movie shows that even if you do that, it is entirely possible to just make the same mistakes all over again.
Omei Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 Of course, that movie shows that even if you do that, it is entirely possible to just make the same mistakes all over again. Wouldn't matter to me at least the feeling would be gone, I think that was the point for her too.
Author figuringitoutx Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 I know I'll always love him or have a soft spot for him. I know that, this guy was my first love, my first everything, you never really let go of that. However, I'm frustrated with the fact that I miss him/what we had SO much. I want to get over it. I feel like I've hit a roadblock that I just can't get over. who knows. 1
Omei Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 I know I'll always love him or have a soft spot for him. I know that, this guy was my first love, my first everything, you never really let go of that. However, I'm frustrated with the fact that I miss him/what we had SO much. I want to get over it. I feel like I've hit a roadblock that I just can't get over. who knows. Oh he was your first? I have good news its very likely you will forget all about that feeling then when you meet someone else down the road and end up having a better relationship than before just because your more experienced. It will come. 1
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