Ruslana Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 I was totally in love with this guy for 4 years we were together officially for a year and seemed very happy together until one day he broke up with me out of the blue, he then went on to string me along still telling me he loved me but wouldnt get back with me this went on for 6 months until I found out he had been sleeping with another girl which is why he had broken up with me in the first place. I eventually had enough of him stringing me along and putting me through so much pain that enough was enough and as much as I didn't want to be without him I just had to cut him off, I blocked him on his facebook as well as his "anonymous" facebook and got a new number. I couldn't even look at his name because of the heartbreak he had put me through. Any way 9 months without him in my life i'm getting on with this and trying to mend the broken mess he left. I went on facebook a week ago to find hes created a new "anonymous" facebook just to send me a message saying "your artwork is looking really good x" . I'm just confused after he left me and knew how much he hurt me as to why he would bother going to the effort of making a new facebook just to message me something so trivial? What is he expecting to gain from it if he knows i want nothing to do with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Mla Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 Iv recently had contact after few months and I did wa u did change number etc sad reality is they don't consider out feelings and contact for their own selfish reasons it temporarily made me feel better as he moved on straight away with new gf n he wasn't pleasant in his contact but felt he was still bothered and not gonna change as he contacted me behind her back n asked me to join his gym! I'm glad I not naive as I know he would mess me around jus like he did his ex portraying running back to her when we argued but he never did and she got messed round it's hard but cuttin contact right as it confused things yet as much I know we can't work from lies n communication issues n lack of trust I still miss him n the good so much as I never experienced wa I did with him before n scared I won't again I'm struggling to move on n cried everyday all this time but we have to stay strong with no contact no matter how hard it is I hope it gets easier for me soon bein nearly.four months in and still in this state Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ruslana Posted March 23, 2014 Author Share Posted March 23, 2014 I don't want contact with him again I spent so long cutting the tw*t out of my life I can't go back to the start again lol. I just replied saying "Thank you" and that was the end of the conversation I don't know what he was expecting me to come crawling back to him. I would rather have my dignity then have him back in my life. I just don't know why he would even bother lol x Link to post Share on other sites
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