GGZ Posted March 23, 2014 Posted March 23, 2014 Hi everyone, I just need some quick advice regarding this friend of mine. I'll get quick to the point and spare the details. I have known a friend for the past two-three months and we are getting along rather well. I would walk with her back home and we would work on class assignments. We have been supporting each other emotionally, and hung out a few times. I think everything between us is only platonic, and should remain this way. But she'd be so confusing at times! She would be very friendly and flirty on some days just like sitting next to me on some days, and then the next day she would pretend I didn't even exist on the surface of this planet. I went to her once and told her that she could tell me anything and if there is anything I did or said that bothered her, she should tell me directly. I don't love her, I just see her as a friend...Yet I have developed some feelings for her. How ironic! I told her that our relationship is strictly platonic once because I didn't want to come across as some guy who wants to hook up with her. She has never talked or mentioned about it since. Recently she seems to be distant and has given me the cold shoulder, and seems to be avoiding me lately...I know I should not making a big fuss out of this, but I am wondering if there is anything I can do to make things less awkward? Should I send her a msg on Facebook or talk to her in person? Is there anything wrong with me? I don't want to be look creepy or clingy. Thank you for your input! GG
maturityassets Posted March 23, 2014 Posted March 23, 2014 Well sometimes girls do sense you like them or something. But idk girls don't necessarily enjoy being friend zoned either. I try often just to be friends with girls and sometimes they stop talking to me for some reason as well, usually after I tell them about my girlfriend or something. Girls don't like being friend zoned either, its not just a guy problem. Also sometimes because of social judgement some girls may view guys who aren't interested in anything beyond platonic friendship as "weird" because usually society tells us guys just want to sleep with every girl we talk to. But hey maybe she sensed you developed feelings and were being a bit dishonest or a possibility she developed feelings
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