David87 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I'm against the password exchange, because everyone deserves a little privacy don't you think? 1
Gaeta Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I'm against the password exchange, because everyone deserves a little privacy don't you think? I am against exchanging passwords as well but after cheating some couples find it to be a necessity to gain back trust in each other. If this guy agreed to proceed with this then he has to play by the rule. He gave her his password without specifying any rules now he's offended she actually did use the password. 1
David87 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I am against exchanging passwords as well but after cheating some couples find it to be a necessity to gain back trust in each other. If this guy agreed to proceed with this then he has to play by the rule. He gave her his password without specifying any rules now he's offended she actually did use the password. Well that's why it's a bad idea to get back together with someone who cheated on you. I'm against this oslo. Once a cheater always a cheater. He's offended because he obviously has something to hide. My guess is: he started to cheat on op again.
ctxinfl Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I just wanted to thank everyone again for their input. It seems that people have differing opinions on whether I was right to look/should continue to look. It would be interesting to see if there is a comparison between: people who have been cheated on with agreeing I was right - vs - people who have not been cheated on and saying I was wrong. I've been cheated on. My ex offered to give me the passwords to all of her accounts so I could better keep tabs on her. I passed as I didn't want to stay married to someone who put more value on building relationships with other people than with me. He was wrong for cheating on you. You were wrong for staying with him. (And giving physical appearance as a reason for staying? "He runs around on me, but he's sooooo hot!" Have some respect for yourself.) You were wrong for believing that him handing over his passwords meant anything. He was wrong for blowing up about you checking behind him. It's a trust issue. You can't trust him. Why in the world would you want to stay with someone that you had to check behind to see if they are continuing to cheat?
Gaeta Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 Well that's why it's a bad idea to get back together with someone who cheated on you. I'm against this oslo. Once a cheater always a cheater. He's offended because he obviously has something to hide. My guess is: he started to cheat on op again. I also agree that you don't deal with a cheater you cut them off but OP won't take any advice on that so I am sticking to her question about the password. People are trying to shove their advice down her throat about leaving a cheater but she won't listen, she is not there yet so no use insisting.
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 He says "here's my password" and then gets mad when you use it?? Man, forget this guy. He's full of bs.
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