FrozenMusic Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 So i've been going out with this girl for over two months now and we have had our first kiss and a couple after that but recently she didn't kiss back, and I really do wanna kiss her but I'm afraid of rejection, we are totally in love with each other but this issue has been bothering me for a while and I dont know what to do about it
Gaeta Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Did you ask her why she doesn't want to kiss you? 1
Author FrozenMusic Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 No, I haven't I'm kind of afraid of what her reaction might be. Like I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable you know?
smackie9 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Question is, how old are you two, is this your first kiss? was it her first? How much experience do you have? Is she religious? 1
lamis Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 If you guys are in love, it is time to start talking about things. You shouldn't be afraid to bring up anything that you are unhappy about in the relationship, and she should be willing to discuss everything you are unhappy about.
Author FrozenMusic Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 Question is, how old are you two, is this your first kiss? was it her first? How much experience do you have? Is she religious? im 14 and shes 15, and yea our first kiss was my first kiss and hers too, and like i said we kissed after that too but it kinda stoppen, and she isnt religious, first relationship
Author FrozenMusic Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 If you guys are in love, it is time to start talking about things. You shouldn't be afraid to bring up anything that you are unhappy about in the relationship, and she should be willing to discuss everything you are unhappy about. well how do i bring it up? i dont want to just barge rght into it, i kinda like wanna ease my way into it bbut i have no idea how
smackie9 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Go in for a kiss, when she pulls back ask her then.
Michelle ma Belle Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Without having answered the questions posted already, you both sound very young and inexperienced. Not a bad thing but if you're asking those of us on here for advice, I can almost guarantee that anyone that's been around the block a few times will tell you to ASK HER! There is no excuse, no matter how old you are or inexperienced you are NOT to ask questions of your partner. Communication, no matter how uncomfortable it may feel, is the foundation of any great and wonderful relationship. How else will you ever know what she's thinking or what she wants or needs and the same with her of you? If you're afraid of making her uncomfortable with the line of questioning then hold her in your arms so she knows she's loved and feels secure. Sometimes is all in the WAY you ask the questions rather than the questions themselves. Good luck!
Author FrozenMusic Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 Without having answered the questions posted already, you both sound very young and inexperienced. Not a bad thing but if you're asking those of us on here for advice, I can almost guarantee that anyone that's been around the block a few times will tell you to ASK HER! There is no excuse, no matter how old you are or inexperienced you are NOT to ask questions of your partner. Communication, no matter how uncomfortable it may feel, is the foundation of any great and wonderful relationship. How else will you ever know what she's thinking or what she wants or needs and the same with her of you? If you're afraid of making her uncomfortable with the line of questioning then hold her in your arms so she knows she's loved and feels secure. Sometimes is all in the WAY you ask the questions rather than the questions themselves. Good luck! Holy ****ing **** that reply is gold, thank you so much, yeah you're right communication is important, I'll ask her tomorrow, thanks for the help
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