chir Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 My friend just told me he have a new gf. And this new gf is non other than the girl who liked him. When we are together, he used to tell me this girl has some character flaws. And we really discussed in details about her. We broke up a month ago. I feel he is not the right guy and I am not getting real satisfaction from this relationship. But i regretted immediately when he agreed because I am afraid to be alone and lonely again. I begged and begged but he said i hurted him too much. I have been in NC since. .i more upset due to the fact that I am lonely nobody to adore me anymore. But this news do hurts. . I know i should not call him or ask him anything. I will make me look really bad. But the pain is real.. Please this forum this thread is the way to help me keep sane. Please reply me please help me..
Ordinaryday Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 My friend just told me he have a new gf. And this new gf is non other than the girl who liked him. When we are together, he used to tell me this girl has some character flaws. And we really discussed in details about her. We broke up a month ago. I feel he is not the right guy and I am not getting real satisfaction from this relationship. But i regretted immediately when he agreed because I am afraid to be alone and lonely again. I begged and begged but he said i hurted him too much. I have been in NC since. .i more upset due to the fact that I am lonely nobody to adore me anymore. But this news do hurts. . I know i should not call him or ask him anything. I will make me look really bad. But the pain is real.. Please this forum this thread is the way to help me keep sane. Please reply me please help me.. heard the expression "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else". whether or not this is actually true, many people BELIEVE it to be true and act like it is. called a "rebound". they rarely last, but people figure the best way to get over one relationship is to get straight into another one. maybe try the same. oh and rebounds rarely last.
lvroflife Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 You stated you weren't satisfied. You need to focus on why you weren't. And keep those thoughts. You only want him back because before you broke up you knew about this girl Stay away and focus on why you weren't happy
Author chir Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 Thanks for the.reply. There is still feelings and memories.. at this.moment the mind is not working Painful that here I am still missing him. .and he is with another person. I am nothing to him. And it hurts
Author chir Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 Even though I don't love him. I did give my true feelings during the relationship. I did give...i did let him into the vulnerable part of my heart. It hurts it really hurts..
lvroflife Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 You wanted out. You weren't satisfied. You got what you wanted. I feel your pain and I am sorry you have to experience it, but it is almost like the saying goes "be careful what you wish for" Take this as a lesson learned. I mean if you didn't talk to him (while together) about why you weren't satisfied with, then now you know to speak up in your next relationship, and if you did and he didn't listen then you know he was not right for you.
Author chir Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 I did and most of it..is non verbal. .i been deeply in love before and the feeling is nowhere near.. i know we are not suitable. . Even though we have certain sweet moments. . And this sweet moments still tugs on my heart .. is still painful. . I kept remembering him feeling for me.. holding on hands..being there for me and in such a short time. . I am nothing to him. I have been still harbouring hopes that he will come back and i will really give it a try to love him. As long as he comes back i know he truly cares. and now this.. i know the truth..but really is painful. .. very very painful.. been.sleepin my missing him today.. and now i know this news. . I am.so afraid now.. how do i get through the night.
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