hilly534 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 SOOO long story short but this guy I've been off and on with for a year .. we hung out last night we never really talked about our feeling towards each other but we talk and hang out a lot and I think were both shy about it but after a year its time to talk about what the hell is going on.. (were 23 btw) after when he was driving back to me car i asked him like why he started talking to me again after he wanted to end things a while back.. and he's like oh were chill together like we never fight.. um i was so pissed like after a year of seeing each other thats all he can say about me so I was like ok well is this all were ever gonna be (pretty much ****buddies) and he's like ..well we've only hung out twice since i got back from vacation.. (he was on vacation for a month ) but still like its not like this was our second date we've been seeing each other for over a year.. anyway I'm sick of being invested emotionally in something when he clearly doesn't see a future with me and is stinging me along.. its super hard cause i do have really strong feelings for him.. what should i say?
thegreatesthumphrey Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 l ended up breaking up with mine just recently. Similar scenario.
David87 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Tell him that you want more than sex, tell him that you need a boyfriend to love and support you not just a fu** buddy. He obviously can deliver so cut your losses now and focus on finding your true love. I understand that you care about him but he's not right for you. 1
AliasMobius Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Don't have an ounce of a clue why you girls put out your sex card before anything gets serious. You root for failure.
Emilia Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Just fade. He isn't your boyfriend and doesn't seem to care all that much so you don't owe him anything.
mammasita Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Like I said in your other thread - He is only doing and will only do what you allow. Basically you can't say anything to make him want to be with you. All you can do is control your actions. In other words remove yourself from the situation.....That is, unless you enjoy being miserable. Let him know you want more, you deserve more, you won't be his fu*k buddy and say goodbye.
Almond_Joy Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 ....my understanding is that an FWB is a friend you have sex with. It sounds like you're mad at him for not wanting more than what that arrangement is set up for. That makes no sense. If you thought you wanted something more from this you shouldn't have agreed to be a f**k buddy in the first place. It's pointless to be mad at someone for not feeling the way you do, especially since it doesn't sound like you made it clear what you want before now. Water under the bridge now though. If he's not interested in taking things further then part ways and date someone if you want a relationship.
CaliBabe Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 You ignore him and never talk to him again. Done.
Strength in Healing Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Don't have an ounce of a clue why you girls put out your sex card before anything gets serious. You root for failure. This is accurate.
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