johnrice Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 tonight i was in my girlfriends backseat of her car and her brother was in the passenger. she was going to show me a picture of a new dog her cousin got. when i leaned up to look she was about to go through her text and she said "don't look at my texts" she said it in sort of a playful way but it also made me question her should i worry about it or not?
jay1983 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 tonight i was in my girlfriends backseat of her car and her brother was in the passenger. she was going to show me a picture of a new dog her cousin got. when i leaned up to look she was about to go through her text and she said "don't look at my texts" she said it in sort of a playful way but it also made me question her should i worry about it or not? No, the texts were probably about you.
OhThatGirl Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 No, the texts were probably about you. Yep. This. Look, the most embarrassing thing a person could do to me is make me stand in a public place and read my Google search history or texts to my best friend or mom. Men AND women both talk to their friends differently than they talk to their significant other. It's why I'm 100% against going through texts or conversations you weren't originally part of. Doesn't mean she's doing anything wrong, but you may still be really turned off by what you see. Whether she was venting about the way you slurp your coffee, telling her BFF about her bloating and gas, telling someone she's having trouble paying her _____ every month... It wasn't intended for you to see. Doesn't mean she's cheating, talking to other men, or engaging in bad girlfriend behavior. It means those were texts between her and someone else and should stay that way. You should respect that. 3
Assasda Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 OP she probably knows how insecure you are already, and it wont matter
jay1983 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Just keep a look out. If she's getting text messages while your with her, and ignoring them or looks uncomfortable when she looks at them. Then you should ask "who's texting you"
pickflicker Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Yep. This. Look, the most embarrassing thing a person could do to me is make me stand in a public place and read my Google search history or texts to my best friend or mom. Men AND women both talk to their friends differently than they talk to their significant other. It's why I'm 100% against going through texts or conversations you weren't originally part of. Doesn't mean she's doing anything wrong, but you may still be really turned off by what you see. Whether she was venting about the way you slurp your coffee, telling her BFF about her bloating and gas, telling someone she's having trouble paying her _____ every month... It wasn't intended for you to see. Doesn't mean she's cheating, talking to other men, or engaging in bad girlfriend behavior. It means those were texts between her and someone else and should stay that way. You should respect that. Agreed. The contents of texts between my girlfriends and I is completely different the texts between myself and a significant other. You shouldn't feel any need to read her texts.
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