quidproquo89 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Why do girls take the first step of messaging you and then fail to make even the simplest attempt at conversation. I.e I had a girl message me saying simply hey. She was quite attractive and had some interests listed that were similar to mine so I messaged her back. I took an interest in her profile and asked her about things. And I got a response back, ignoring most of it and saying I'm good, n u? Rolling my eyes, I think to myself, why bother being on a dating site if you can't muster any effort to talk to anyone. Would she be like that in real life?
Conners Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 I've heard that women are out numbered by men on dating sites. Perhaps because she is quite "attractive" she had numerous messages she had to reply to and couldn't be bothered writing a well thought out a message for all of them.
ja123 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Just cut to the chase with her and ask her out for a coffee. When she says yes, also ask for her #. 2
Atticus9292012 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 I used to do the online dating thing and I liked to talk to someone for awhile before I even gave them my number, let alone meet them. 1-2 weeks. There are a lot of wackos out there. She may have just wanted to respond, but didn't have time to engage in a real conversation. Just roll with it. I'm not trying to say I'm hot stuff or anything, but I would get a lot of messages and sometimes I would just respond to people I thought were what I was looking for. The responses may not have been quality. 1
WP4046 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 someone was more attractive which is life in the online dating world 1
mario_C Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Send her messages that are so good, she can't help but message back! Sorry, women get to test you by making you keep writing. You need to respond with a show of your attraction, and your wit and charm. We are there to entertain them. So be entertaining! 1
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