3j15 Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 So as the title states, I was given a second chance. If you want to see more of the background story please go to my previous threads. The important points are that I pushed my gf and she broke up with me. She still loved me and she was willing to give me another chance. I went to go see help, went to go see a councilor to see what got me to over react and physically abuse my gf. A month went by of us seeing eachother again and starting to take this slow. Things were going amazing, every date we had was just a lot of fun and no stress or arguments at all. She was talking about how she saw improvement in me and that I was really taking positive steps in changing. We were talking about the future again. This whole time after our break up, she was keeping it a secret from her friends that she was still seeing me. This is where she was worried of what her friends would think of her. She didnt want to be seen as that girl. well 2 days ago, after a great dinner date, we talked about how she was going to tell her friends about how I wanted to get back together. She talked to her best friend, and apparently all her worst fears came true. Her friend reassured her that people would think of her as cowardly and lose respect for her. Funny thing is her other best friend said that they wouldnt lose any respect for her, and that if she really loved me she would give me another chance. Well after the talk with her friends she calls me to break up with me.... This was after a month of me thinking that we were going to be okay. Making positive progress towards improving my emotional self. Also her family does not approve of us getting back together. Her dad even called her weak.... So her friends and family dont approve of us getting back together, and she doesnt personally want to be seen as "that girl". So yeah, I'm not looking for sympathy here, I am just venting. I understand, I messed up pretty badly originally, so I cant be mad about her ending things again. But I think I have the right to be a bit upset. She told me she wanted to work things out again, wanted to restart. Then she tells me everything is going great, and all of a sudden after she tells her friend about us getting back together, she gets worried about what people would think of her, so she ends it... So now back to NC, try to keep improving on myself and move forward with my life. To be honest this break up is a lot easier to handle than the first one. Thanks for reading 1
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