davereavy Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 Hi Guys I thought I would share my experience here, almost as a type of therapy. I have just broken up with my girl friend and best friend and am having a really hard time. There was a spark from the first day I met here and we were great friends through uni. We both did our own thing but we always had a big soft spot for each other for years. Anyway a year ago after a big build up we finally got together. It was the best experience of my life, so much love. Unfortunately I lived in Switzerland and she lives in the UK and the distance made things hard. We talked a lot and we tried to saw each other every few weeks but the relationship was hard work. I agreed to move back to the UK and 2 weeks before the move she broke up with me. I am now living in the UK and living on my own and working from home. I know no one and just feel completely heart broken and on my own. I would love to be back in Switzerland with my group of friends. I have been through break ups before but never like this. She has already moved on. I just miss her and what we had so much. I also know I have lost one of my best friends. Things are slowly getting better. Straight after the breakup all I could think about was how to get her back, and then I tried to ask every girl I knew on a date. I then talked to my and her friends about it which was no so smart. Now I just want to be left alone and try not to think about it. The panic has passed now and I know its over, but it still hurts. I keep thinking if we met in a year, without the distance maybe it would work. Im really trying to stop holding on but its hard. Has anyone else had an experience like this? I really with I could just forget her and feel normal. I have cut all contact, deleted her from Facebook and deleted her phone number but how can I stop the pain? I am visiting old friends at the weekends which helps but I have never felt heartbreak like this. Sorry everyone but I just had to let this out. I dont feel I can lean on my friends anymore.
David87 Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 (edited) Time heals all wounds no matter how deep they are. Sorry that you had to go through this. She fell out of love that's why it was easier for her. She didn't forget you she learned to live with out you, try doing the same. Edited March 21, 2014 by David87
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