ao8852 Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 So this girl and I attend the same college. Her and I officially dated my sophomore year (I'm in my senior) I messed up and tried to make it right. So ever since than she changed into this very self centered, self absorbed person and would say things to lead me on and than find another guy. Recently, we met up in the summer and she apologized but I could tell that she was kind of saying things that I would want to her because she's that type of person. She than found out that I had been talking to this girl that she knew (not on a friend basis) and confronted me about it saying how disrespectful I was and in turn, did things to get a reaction out of me so I would say mean things. Fast forward to a couple months ago. I found out that she had met some 24 year old guy on facebook (much more muscular than me, army guy) no job and no degree, and he ended up visiting her twice and boom, they're officially dating long distance as of a month ago; posting so many pictures and she even added his whole family on facebook. It really upsets me that I was just basically left for nothing and forgotten about after 3 years. And it's hard cause I have to see them around because we go to the same school. She won't talk to me at all for any closure. What should I do because I really feel my kindness and forgiveness was taken advantage of and betrayed and it hurts that she's probably saying the same stuff to him as she said to me while we were together. HELP
Weallwalkthelongroad Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 Keep on talking to other girls and remain NC.
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