One of those days

[SarahJames]

I'm having one of those days. The kind where I obsess over the ex-MM and the things he said. I've even reread old text messages. I read them, and it made me miss him, but it also made me think that I've glorified the "relationship" we had when in fact...I think he was just using me for sex. It breaks my heart to think thats all it was. Any comforting words would be appreciated

[jellybean89]

Do something for YOU...start with deleting all of messages/texts from the xMM.

[Jllbcb]

I'm having one of those days. The kind where I obsess over the ex-MM and the things he said. I've even reread old text messages. I read them, and it made me miss him, but it also made me think that I've glorified the "relationship" we had when in fact...I think he was just using me for sex. It breaks my heart to think thats all it was. Any comforting words would be appreciated

 

Don't beat yourself up... it is a process- a step up and two steps back and so on and on- just give yourself time to heal. wishing you the best:)

[gettingstronger]

Yes, please delete those texts. Heck do a shot for every 10 or so you delete. Do something that benefits you!

[halfalive]

I'm having one of those days. The kind where I obsess over the ex-MM and the things he said. I've even reread old text messages. I read them, and it made me miss him, but it also made me think that I've glorified the "relationship" we had when in fact...I think he was just using me for sex. It breaks my heart to think thats all it was. Any comforting words would be appreciated

 

I feel for you.

 

 

I'm having the same kind of day. I broke NC a couple of weeks ago and asked to see him. He said no. I couldn't believe it.

 

 

He's divorced now and I'm not, so all I can think of is that he has a whole new life. I'm part of a past life that he probably never thinks about. But here I am, still married, still in the same "life" and all I can do is think about him. And that's what hurts.