harvej Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Should I block my exHPDgf from FB now that I have gone NC and she wrote a farewell note? I don't want to be petty, but also don't care to see her updates as i may not be disciplined enough to stay away from her BF profile. She wants to keep door open later and we have mutual friends on FB. Good idea, bad idea?
STM206 Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 It all depends on when you're ready. Your ex wrote a farewell letter and that solidifies where they stand. In my opinion, removing the ex is probably the best thing for YOU emotionally. The wound is still so fresh that you seeing the ex's updates would keep opening that wound, right? At this point you have to do what's best for you. If it makes you feel better, let your ex know that you're doing this for you and not to be vindictive. If they're mature enough they will respect your decision. You can always add them again down the road when you are healed.
lamis Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 There is no reason not to. If blocking her is better for you, then do it. Don't worry about her or any of the other people it might affect.
Weallwalkthelongroad Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Just do it and don't even tell her about it. She'll notice and if she is mature, she will understand your reasoning for doing so. If she isn't mature about it, it will just reaffirm why you are not with her anymore. 1
No Limit Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 I'd block her. Writing farewell notes is petty and you're not her lap dog. 1
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