Vero Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 My crush and I don't share any classes, but we both are on the track and field team. This is good, but she does Discus which is a field event, so I assume she stays in the school gym and does weights. I do running events, so I'm always busy on the track. We literally NEVER get to see each other because the Track People and the Field people are always separated and busy. Rarely will I see her walking with her friend to the gym. Is it worth trying to put myself in her area (i.e. The gym weight room) Or is there really no chance for me? I have her added of Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram and we like each other's pictures. Thanks.
David87 Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Go for it. Next time, instead of going to the running events, go to the gym and do weights. Smile at her, say hello then see how it goes. It's better to try and fail then not try at all. Good Luck.
SmartDude Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Hmm well. Since you added her on facebook you could try sending a message to her when she is online. Just make sure that you keep it simple and see if she will engage in a conversation with you. Maybee talk about her interests. Get her to talk about herself and show genuine interest if you can without having an agenda of your own that she can detect. *Women are very intuitive so be careful* Be prepared because she might actually message you back. What are you going to do if that happens? Think ahead but don't have a plan if that makes any sense. If you are fortunate enough to get a little conversation going online then you need to not "avoid" her in person. Don't get all comfy in front of your computer and tell her your deepest thoughts just yet. Just break the ice with little chats here and there online so that you can talk to her in person without freaking out. I dunno that’s the best I have for ya. Someone else might come along and explain why this is a terrible idea.
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