mel7b Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Here's a new one for ya'll: I am twice divorced from the same man after a total of 22 years together, and we have 3 kids. The first divorce was necessary, but the second divorce was stupid, and my fault. That was 3 years ago, and the ex and I are still sleeping together just about every weekend. I know that I hurt him so very badly, and I have been trying to redeem myself ever since. I have been totally honest about my feelings, but he doesn't give me any reassurance, he doesn't deny or confirm anything; he just comes to have sex with me. I was fine with this arrangement until I found out he had a gf (it only lasted a month) in another state, while he was still sleeping with me too. She is out of the picture now, but I am scared to death to continue with our physical relationship (tho I keep doing it) because I got hurt. SO my question IS: Is he still sleeping with me because he still loves me and there is hope for a (third) chance? Or is it just sex to him, with no intention of reuniting, until he finds someone else again? I only continue to have sex with him because I love him, and I want him back. If there is no hope, I need to stop, right??? To sleep with him, or not to sleep with him? What is the best way to get him to admit his feelings, get back together, or get over him? Help! Side note: He blocked me from FB during our divorce, and he still won't unblock me... His band plays gigs, and he never invites me.
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