reeciecup Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 (edited) I recently snooped through my bf facebook because I had a gut feeling something wasn't right. I wasn't expecting this but, I read through a stream of messages he had with a women the night before. He indicated to her that he couldn't stand me most of the time and that he was going to breakup with me but then found out I was pregnant..my son is just 2 months old now..and he also said that he messed up and should have stayed single and that the only reason he is with me is because he doesn't want me taking his money and living a good life with it. I don't know who this women is or how he knows her but they talk occasionally and there never has been any indication that more was going on..anyway I broke up with him over this because I feel like if that's how he felt he should have been man enough to tell me plus we were still together and live in the same house..this was just the icing on the cake because previously he's done similar things and more. I think as the mother of his newborn I deserve and demand more respect. When I confronted him he says he only told her that because he feels like that when we argue but that he loves me and likes being around me. But in the convo he made no mention of that, he said nothing good about me..my son is my first priority and it is a shame that his father is that dumb..I feel like hes fake and using me if this is how he really feels...we all say things to friends or family sometimes that may annoy us about our partner but I think this is overboard and it hurts..is this overreacting? Edited March 20, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
KaliLove Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Good heavens no! You are in no way overreacting. What a piece of **** this guy is!!! Ugh! This just goes to show everyone that you should listen to your gut. I'm really sorry this happened but at least you found out now and not down the line when it could have really impacted your son in a much bigger way. Now you can work out a custody agreement and figure out how to be civil towards each other before your little guy can even speak. Congrats on being a new mom btw..I know it must be bitter sweet but still..it's something to celebrate.
Author reeciecup Posted March 20, 2014 Author Posted March 20, 2014 Good heavens no! You are in no way overreacting. What a piece of **** this guy is!!! Ugh! This just goes to show everyone that you should listen to your gut. I'm really sorry this happened but at least you found out now and not down the line when it could have really impacted your son in a much bigger way. Now you can work out a custody agreement and figure out how to be civil towards each other before your little guy can even speak. Congrats on being a new mom btw..I know it must be bitter sweet but still..it's something to celebrate. Thank you very much!!
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