futurehistory Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Hi everyone.I was going out with someone a few months ago for about a month,in the last week we were going out I ended up breaking up with him because he just started to seem selfish and started speaking on my behalf which just bugged me and there was other things aswell that annoyed me. Since then he has been talking about me alot to other people telling them how much he misses me and he used to always text with any reason just to talk to me but I barely responded because I was tryin to distance myself from him. When I broke up with him I just felt like I had no feelings towards him but in the last month or two I think about him alot and even when I see him sometimes I get this feeling in my stomach or I do something so he will notice me even though I force myself not to talk to him. I know he's still interested in me,I dont know what it is that makes me think about him alot even though we have barely spoken for months.
letsplaygofish2 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I'm sorry that it's confusing. From experience, I'd say someone who is that annoying in the beginning of a relationship can only prove to be even more annoying in the future. All of those things that you've mentally noted are signs and cues to emotional immaturity and possible controlling/narcissism. While he has been speaking to these friends, has he claimed any responsibility to making you feel the way you did? If he didn't, let him go. That man isn't worth *****! Sorry for the biased response, I'm reeling over my ex and wished I had listed to my gut instincts long ago
Author futurehistory Posted March 20, 2014 Author Posted March 20, 2014 Sorry to hear about that letsplay.The thing I dont understand the most is why im still thinking about him alot when i'm the one that ended it with him. When I was speakin to someone a few days ago I got told he talks about me alot and for some reason he cant get over it even though we were only together for about a month.He has said before that he knew he f***ed up big time with me but was always hoping there was a chance we got back together.There is times when I think about getting back together with him but I have never told him that because I dont want to lead him on because it wouldnt be fair.Its hard to put into words how I feel about him.
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