nyny123 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 It's a long story but will keep it short. The situation I was seeing this guy for 2 months and then he suddenly disappeared without any warning, this happened in December. I would try to call him and he either never picked up or when he did he said he would call me back but never did. I later on found out he found another girlfriend and I was so hurt and confused so I tried to move on removing all pics on my phone, number and from facebook and instagram. Now recently he was at the supermarket where I work at and he saw me and walked up to me. We talked alittle and he apologized about not mentioning to me he has a girlfriend and that it was because he hasn't heard from me which isn't true, and that he would want to hang out sometimes, I think as friends. I was happy to see him but at the same time I'm hurt about what happened. I still like and have a thing for him.
devilish innocent Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Move on. He wasn't a very good friend when he avoided you without giving you an explanation. Who he is to say he won't do the same thing again? Even if he does want to hang out, it seems like trouble when you like him and he has a girlfriend. I don't see anything good coming from trying to be his friend. 1
Gaeta Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 He lied to you and treated you like dirt and now you want to be friends? Where's the logic in that. If you become friends with him then you send him the message it's ok to treat you this badly. 1
Author nyny123 Posted March 20, 2014 Author Posted March 20, 2014 Move on. He wasn't a very good friend when he avoided you without giving you an explanation. Who he is to say he won't do the same thing again? Even if he does want to hang out, it seems like trouble when you like him and he has a girlfriend. I don't see anything good coming from trying to be his friend. Yeah you're right and I'm scared to get hurt again. I really tried to avoid him when I saw him at my job
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Move on. Whenever someone treats you like that; torch that bridge. I have lingered in situations like that in the past and it was nothing but pain 2
babycakees Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Tread lightly. This guy is a dirtbag and I think you know it. I would not even give him the time of day. 2
Author nyny123 Posted March 23, 2014 Author Posted March 23, 2014 Tread lightly. This guy is a dirtbag and I think you know it. I would not even give him the time of day. Yeah. I even tried to avoid him when he saw me but he followed me into the aisle I work at.
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