romanticman2015 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Been watching the site and now have a problem I hope people can help with. I've been dating someone for about a month now (maybe a little) over. Taking it easy and slowly and we've had a great fun and no issues. This weekend we had a great time and really took our relationship to a bit of a deeper level. We didn't have a disagreement - but at one point we had very different points of view on something we were doing. Left that evening and didn't talk until the following afternoon and we ended up spending some time together. When I dropped her off that evening I texted her to say goodnight and didn't get a response. I sent her another in the morning to wish her a great day and she wished me the same. That evening we had separate activities planned but I texted her to tell her how the evening was going and got one response. When I got home the package we were waiting for arrived and since it was later i texted her (11ish) but do response. So before I went to bed I told her I missed chatting with her today and hope she had a great evening. I thought I'd hear from her in the morning, again no response. She doesn't have her phone during working hours so I'm not left wondering is there something wrong or there is probably a logical explanation. I'll call her this evening, but the waiting is killing me.
Author romanticman2015 Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 that's a great quote and I don't disagree with it. But doesn't help me trying to understand where I am. I do talk to her..but couldn't last night or this morning...
Gaeta Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Left that evening and didn't talk until the following afternoon and we ended up spending some time together. How was she with you then? Did she seem distant?
Author romanticman2015 Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 No - not at all. Everything seemed absolutely perfect. I was shocked, actually that she was willing to go out at all - not because of the incident the night before. But her days off are very sacred to her. We went out, held hands - in the car actually she was trying to text a friend and I told her she could have her hand back and she said she didn't need it. Dinner was fun, casual and light. I moved around and sat next to her and massaged her back a bit as we looked up some hotels on the internet for an upcoming trip we are planning on taking with a friend. If I recall, I held her hand a bit on the ride home. Like I said, she let me fully kiss her..but that might be the only thing that seemed even slightly weird..maybe because it was outside while it was light out.
Gaeta Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I don't think anything is wrong, it's more you are feeling a little insecure about that difference of opinion you had earlier. Maybe she got up late this morning and had to rush to work and thought to herself she'll talk to you later anyway. Tonight though if she texts you first just pick up the phone and call. I would not mention anything about your text worries. Just see if she's overly tired, how she's doing, talk about something you'd like to do next, and see how she is. If she seems different then you can ask if everything is ok she sounds tired. Also, you are just starting to get to know this person, you don't know how she manages differences of opinions. You think it was nothing but she may be really bogged down on it. This is the *getting to know you* phase, it's full of surprises! You will know soon.
Author romanticman2015 Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 My intent is to just call her this evening. Continued texts seems the wrong approach. I should have just called her knowing her approach to texts.
Author romanticman2015 Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 That's the one thing I was thinking - she was running late for work. I wanted to message you directly, but I guess that's not possible. I just didn't want the issue out for the general group to read.
Gaeta Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 You are welcome to message me. I am new here though and I don't know how that works. 1
Author romanticman2015 Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 unfortunately the site won't let you and not comfortable to put it out here. But thanks Gaela!!!!
Author romanticman2015 Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 sent you a private message.
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