Hurting-girl Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 After cheating on me i decided to end the relationship, i went on NC for two weeks. Then he decided to text me apologizing i responded in a very bitter manner because i am still angry. Part of me wants to give him a chance and get back with with But i am so confused. He wants us to meet and talk i want to listen to him but i don't know if i am ready to start over. What would you do if you were in my situation? Please advice
David87 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 After cheating on me i decided to end the relationship, i went on NC for two weeks. Then he decided to text me apologizing i responded in a very bitter manner because i am still angry. Part of me wants to give him a chance and get back with with But i am so confused. He wants us to meet and talk i want to listen to him but i don't know if i am ready to start over. What would you do if you were in my situation? Please advice Hmmm ignore him, let him live with his mistake, never give him a chance .. something along those lines. Remember this: once a cheater always a cheater. He doesn't deserve a second chance. You deserve someone who respects you and doesn't cheat on you. So ignore him, delete him from your phone, block him on social media. 1
Zahara Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 "Its been two weeks since i broke up with my ex and i feel so empty and bitter, we have been dating for 5 years and we were supposed to get married this year, I found out that he is cheating on my in January and i broke up with him, he begged for forgiveness so many times and i gave him a chance. He came over to my place (we are in long distance relationship) and we talked and solved our issues then out of the blue the lady whom he cheated me with sent him a message and he refused to disclose the contents to me. I realised that they never broke up and according to my ex the lady is now pregnant with his child. I felt like my world is collapsing i couldn't believe that my lover did that to me he betrayed . I am so hurt!!! please help me to get over him!!" What would I do in your situation -- as stated above? I would bear the pain of NC and push myself to move forward from this clown. Read and register what you're writing! Considering a second chance with someone like this is only going to make you experience another go around. Giving him a second chance only teaches him you tolerate cheating and that enables him to do it again. My god he now has a child with another woman and you're asking if you should give him a second chance? You do know that if she has this child, he's going to be in her life, probably having relations with her and you at the same time? And cheaters will beg and cry for a second chance when they get caught. It's what they do to get their benefits back.
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Send him a photo of you and your current guy with the caption "Bigger, better, brighter!" Ignore him. He's just whingeing. (You may not have a current guy, but make one up..... )
AlphaC Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 After cheating on me i decided to end the relationship, i went on NC for two weeks. Then he decided to text me apologizing i responded in a very bitter manner because i am still angry. Part of me wants to give him a chance and get back with with But i am so confused. He wants us to meet and talk i want to listen to him but i don't know if i am ready to start over. What would you do if you were in my situation? Please advice Wow, can't believe any woman would get back with a man who she dated for 5 years, dumps her, gets another girl pregnant and is still lying to her, cheating etc. WOW MAN, there are some crazy people in this world. OP if you consider, for one second, getting back with this loser then we all know you will, in your last post you stated you were suicidal. Get some help before it's too late, take a vacation and get away ASAP, take the money you were saving for your wedding and disappear for a year.
lvroflife Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Is he a cheater or did he cheat? Either way its no good! But still learn the difference
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