Boxerhd Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I met this girl from an online dating site. Great girl and we exchanged a lot of long emails before setting up a date and exchanging numbers. The date went amazing. We talked, laughed, and had a great time. I hinted at going out again and she nodded. Afterwards we kissed, she texted me when she got home, and things were left at a great point. I texted her in the middle of the day the next day to see how something she was doing that morning went. We chatted a bit and i asked her if she would like to see each other again. She said she would and was very positive about it but it would have to be in a week as she is busy. The next day I didn't text her at all as I was waiting to see if she would. Nothing but thats ok. I texted her today bringing up a random thing we talked about and we talked a bit again. All positive. My question is, is it normal to talk a lot before the first date, and then slow down a lot after? She still responds to me which means I'm not in hot water or anything, but I definitely don't want to be the guy to initiate all the conversations. I liked her a lot but I also don't want to make moves if she doesn't feel the same way. Im not good at this dating thing as you can tell but Im also far from "that guy." It wouldn't be a good feeling but if she's not into thats ok. Im just curious if this situation happens often. Let me know your thoughts or advice. Maybe this is more towards the ladies but all advice is welcome!
Assasda Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 She met you in person. So you're not a mystery anymore. I feel you talk a lot, and you try to get out everything you want to say to her, try not doing that. Try leaving yourself open to questions and then answering them when the time arises. Also, see other women as well
Author Boxerhd Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 I'm actually a fairly quiet guy. I was following the same style of conversation we've been having. Whoops
David87 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 You initiate plenty of convos, let her start one for once. I don't think that she's into you as much as you're into her. Continue dating other women.
Author Boxerhd Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 I can see that. I do think I shared too much. Its not like me. I guess I was just caught up in finally meeting someone that I liked and shared a great time with. Got a little over anxious. Its only been twice that I initiated it by text and both times she was the last one to reply. Maybe I should give it a few days and give her a call? Or did I blow it before it started?
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