rubberman Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Hello, my first post her on this forum. First av all i must say ive been lurking around on this forum for the last 2 weeks. Reading different threads about how to handle a break up. 2 Weeks ago my girlfriend dumped me, we had been dating for little over a year before the breakup. Last 6 months was distance relationship, so just drifted further apart. So this forum have really helped me getting myself back up, and im feeling rather good right now, already slept with 2 other girls. Thats just my way of getting over her. So first thing i did was to remove her from facebook, block her profile and remove her from all social medias. Also removed all pictures of us and we have had no contact the last 2 weeks. Earlier this evening she sent me a text saying "Hello, Hope everything is going well.. was gonna send you a fb message but couldnt find you, and want me to give her sisters some things that she still have at my place". I don't want to break the NC, should i just send her sisters a message to tell them to come and pick the stuff up? Some advice please !
TaraMaiden Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Hello, my first post her on this forum. .... So this forum have really helped me getting myself back up, and im feeling rather good right now, already slept with 2 other girls. Thats just my way of getting over her. Do these girls realise you were just using them as - pardon me, to use a colloquialism - 'phukk-buckets'...? "Hello, Hope everything is going well.. was gonna send you a fb message but couldnt find you, and want me to give her sisters some things that she still have at my place". I don't want to break the NC, should i just send her sisters a message to tell them to come and pick the stuff up? Some advice please ! No. Her sisters are her responsibility. Let her contact them direct. Then they can ring you....
Author rubberman Posted March 18, 2014 Author Posted March 18, 2014 Do these girls realise you were just using them as - pardon me, to use a colloquialism - 'phukk-buckets'...? No. Her sisters are her responsibility. Let her contact them direct. Then they can ring you.... Not really, i have not told any of them the current situation. And i think ill keep it that was for now. I have no interest in dating or finding myself a new girlfriend. I like being single right now, living life and just hanging with my friends. Just enjoying myself, i feel more free now. Im keeping nc, and make her sisters contact me then !
TaraMaiden Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 using people for your own gratification is selfish and unkind. You need to be up-front with women and let them know you're just out for a good time. This is how hearts get broken, then you get a bad rep as a player... 1
Author rubberman Posted March 18, 2014 Author Posted March 18, 2014 using people for your own gratification is selfish and unkind. You need to be up-front with women and let them know you're just out for a good time. This is how hearts get broken, then you get a bad rep as a player... My bad for not being clear enough, ive told them im not interested in a relationship right now. And both have been fine with it. I have just not told them i got dumped 2weeks ago.
TaraMaiden Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Fair enough. But I'm glad you realise the importance of being honest with them regarding your current intentions. Your past is, quite rightly, none of their business.
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