natt_99 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 My boyfriend didn't text me since he dropped me off in my apartment on Sunday evening. I texted him yesterday evening since it seemed odd that he hadn't sent me a message since he does so everyday usually by each afternoon. He used few words in his texts and seemed different. I think he is mad at me and I don't know if it has to do with something I told him before he dropped me off. When I was getting off his car, he also started to get off.. and told me he was gonna stay over at my place.. He had already stayed the night before and I wanted to be alone and get my homework done... So when he told me this I told him "really, again?" It just came out and I think this got him sad or mad! And now he is not talking to me like before Should I text him "what's wrong?" or what should I say? :/
Fondue Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 You wanted your space (and rightfully so), but he got upset because he cannot handle a bit of rejection. Now he's being a child about it by being passive aggressive instead of understanding that you have your own professional needs to attend to (homework). He's trying to instill some control over you by having you come to HIM, and ask HIM what is wrong, and apologize to HIM about something that YOU shouldn't be apologizing for. If you do all that, he gains some power over you. (Wo)MAN up and let him stew. Don't bother asking him what's wrong. He should apologize to you for being a baby.
Assasda Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 You should just come out in the open and ask him if thats why he's mad. Stop using texts by the way. If my feelings were hurt, I'd stop texting too. So call and ask, and tell him that you enjoy his company, but, you just wanted some alone time
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