Author Keenly Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 I don't know. I'm sure a lot of men don't deserve a good woman. I should know, I sure don't deserve a good woman... Not with an attitude like that. Where's the confidence? I know I sure as hell would give a good woman all I had. 2
Grumpybutfun Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I had never heard of it until a girl put this on her Facebook feed. I read it and wanted to see what you all thought. I have no opinion on it other than the guy seems kinda douchey. Honestly, you seem so sensible here so I couldn't imagine that being your tome for ideas. I agree, he is douchey, and he is also my age so he should be able to see the dysfunction in those girls for what it is. Grumps
Mr Scorpio Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Any honest person can admit that women have very little reason to behave well, either in marriage or society. If they do the same things that men do, very little or nothing will happen to them. Really? Arizona jury to consider again death penalty for Jodi Arias in September | Reuters 1
M30USA Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Really? Arizona jury to consider again death penalty for Jodi Arias in September | Reuters "Consider" Wanna place bets?
topaMAXX Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 While I don't believe either men or women are better than the other, I do believe that our current society forces men to behave better by invoking stricter punishment for them. Any honest person can admit that women have very little reason to behave well, either in marriage or society. If they do the same things that men do, very little or nothing will happen to them. Now, human nature being what it is, ANY person under those circumstances would develop poor character. If I had no consequence for robbing a bank, I would, wouldn't you? I definitely agree with this. Women rule in the courts and in social situations. The other day I had a female coworker come up to me and grab my ass at a social gathering. This was considered acceptable. Could you imagine if I did that to her? I probably would have gotten fired. 1
Author Keenly Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 I definitely agree with this. Women rule in the courts and in social situations. The other day I had a female coworker come up to me and grab my ass at a social gathering. This was considered acceptable. Could you imagine if I did that to her? I probably would have gotten fired. Yeah but we also can't pretend men have the same reactions to stuff like this that women do. I have an 18 year old at my work that likes to sneak up on me and grab my ribcage to scare me. Would it be sexual harassment if I did that to her ? Yes. Do I like the attention? Yes. Am I offended like a woman would be? No. 4
lollipopspot Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 The other day I had a female coworker come up to me and grab my ass at a social gathering. This was considered acceptable. It's not acceptable unless you accept it. Why don't you go to HR and make a complaint instead of whinging about how unfair it all is on the internet? If you do nothing, you really can't complain about how nothing is done. To HR, it's really not acceptable in the workplace whether a male or female does it, but you'd rather complain about it than do anything about it. Like the guy here who voluntarily gave his wife more than court ordered in his divorce, then complains that the courts must be unfair because he gave his wife so much in their divorce. Take responsibility. 1
Mr Scorpio Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 (edited) "Consider" Wanna place bets? So then would you say that serving time in prison is "very little" reason for women to behave themselves? Edited March 19, 2014 by Mr Scorpio 1
GravityMan Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Any decent man or woman would not take Return of Kings seriously. That article and the site as a whole deserves nothing more than derision. 7
Author Keenly Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 Any decent man or woman would not take Return of Kings seriously. That article and the site as a whole deserves nothing more than derision. Apparently this site has a bad rep. Good to know. I still agree with the general vague premise that women like this exist, even if its a minority. Maybe the reason I agree with him is because of the bad experience I did have with the "party girl." She most certainly doesn't deserve a man like me, and women that also behave like her don't. If you want a good man, you have to be a good woman, and vice versa. There we go, THAT is the statement I stand behind. 4
Grumpybutfun Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 If you want a good man, you have to be a good woman, and vice versa. There we go, THAT is the statement I stand behind. Agreed and people who get that concept also know not to let themselves be ruled by their emotions too quickly or they end up attached to people who do not deserve them. Men have to stop being ruled by their peckers and their need for a woman to the extent they forget to make sure she is exactly who they think she is before they start emotionally investing. I see way too much...I love her and can't live without her by week eight posts here. It is like watching the train track disappear in front of them.... G 2
Woggle Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I read the rest of that site and I would say 99% of it is crap. 2
regine_phalange Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 People get what they think they deserve. No external observer is entitled to judge what one deserves or deserves not. * I browsed this website for a laugh, but these people who write there lack in the humor department.
peruano99 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 If you want a good man, you have to be a good woman as well. 1
dragon_fly_7 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 If you want a good man, you have to be a good woman as well.True. I still can't believe some people don't get this. If you are a messed up person, off course you're not going to get a good, decent man/woman.
TouchedByViolet Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 If you want a good man, you have to be a good woman as well. This is a naive view and only exists in some fantasy world. There are many untrustworthy and abusive men and women everywhere who have faithful and caring significant others. 3
central Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Sadly, there is a great deal of truth in the article. Of course it does not apply to all women, and maybe not even most - but certainly to a large minority. It's easy to observe the dynamics he writes about in the bars, clubs, and on the beaches of this tourist town I live in. Off season, it's the young locals behaving this way. I hear about it from people at work, describing their friends and kids. My wife works with several young women like this. Generally, they are irresponsible, don't take their work seriously, and create an unpleasant (and sometimes unsafe) work environment. One or two of the older ones talk about their pasts and they behaved like the article describes. Now they're the super-moms - and divorced.
ThatMan Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 This is a naive view and only exists in some fantasy world. There are many untrustworthy and abusive men and women everywhere who have faithful and caring significant others. It really is so simple as being able to throw your arms upwards while exclaiming, "You're screwed up! It isn't okay to treat me this way!" Relationships like this are exactly why it's so important to attempt to be the best person that you can be. That includes being a fully independent adult who can meet your own needs, believe that you are deserving of respectful treatment, being well-adjusted, willing to take risk including putting yourself out there to meet new people, place effort into refraining from becoming isolated, and be willing to sort through your wants and needs to decide what's best for you. Choosing to walk away really is that simple. Somewhere, somehow, something has gone horribly wrong and an individual isn't willing to empower themselves. It doesn't mean they're a bad person. But it does mean that they need to be committed to working on themselves more than ever. People leave abusive relationships after working on themselves by walking away with their own two feet. I don't believe the typical clubber is the sort of person who feels interested in self-improvement... 1
man_in_the_box Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Most Women Don?t Deserve A Good Man What do you guys think ? Guy needs therapy. 9
KathyM Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I don't believe most women are like this. Maybe a small minority are like this. In any case, that guy is a hypocrite for blaming women for this behavior when he has whored around himself. 4
dragon_fly_7 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I don't believe most women are like this. Maybe a small minority are like this. In any case, that guy is a hypocrite for blaming women for this behavior when he has whored around himself.Hence why he is surrounded by poor quality women. 2
RedRobin Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 (edited) I don't believe most women are like this. Maybe a small minority are like this. In any case, that guy is a hypocrite for blaming women for this behavior when he has whored around himself. I know, right? He ought to be thanking God for those women. I mean, it's not like most healthy 20 something women want to be with a 40 something man. Edited March 20, 2014 by RedRobin
ponchsox Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 Girls who marry or have a kid with a deadbeat douche bag that end up as single moms and treat their boyfriend like crap don't deserve a good man. I've been on the wrong end before.
EasyHeart Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Most Women Don?t Deserve A Good Man What do you guys think ? I'd quarrel with the word "most", but the basic idea of the article is fair. When people complain that they deserve a good partner, I think it's fair to ask them what they have to offer a good partner. I think it's a variation of the "work on yourself first" idea.
tbf Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 I'd quarrel with the word "most", but the basic idea of the article is fair. When people complain that they deserve a good partner, I think it's fair to ask them what they have to offer a good partner. I think it's a variation of the "work on yourself first" idea.Considering the writer, before pointing the finger at women, perhaps he too should "work on himself" first. 4
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