David87 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Now I don't really understand this. She told me it was her period and that's why she didn't let me... but she didn't say anything at the time, just giggled and moved my hands away. Was she really doing it for that reason? Or is it possible she's playing around with me? She's not playng around with you. Now she had to reasons to reject you. You 2 were in her uncles house and she was on her period. Girls are strange(not all of them ) when that ''special time'' of the month comes, be thankful she did not slap you
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 She's not playng around with you. Now she had to reasons to reject you. You 2 were in her uncles house and she was on her period. Girls are strange(not all of them ) when that ''special time'' of the month comes, be thankful she did not slap you So true! The scary part is I had no idea. She didn't behave ant differently from normal, no PMS, and there were no physical signs. She was her usual sweet self!
GoreSP Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 You have no idea what state I was in by the the time I got back to my place - lol. Maybe I was just expecting too much so soon into the relationship. learn to deal with it. Your girlfriend isn't your blowup doll. 5
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 learn to deal with it. Your girlfriend isn't your blowup doll. Absolutely I would never want to objectify her in that way. But it's just difficult, you know, being a 22 year old virgin and all, and being that close!
David87 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 learn to deal with it. Your girlfriend isn't your blowup doll. Yeah listen to GoreSP she knows what she talks about 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 Yeah listen to GoreSP she knows what she talks about I'm extremely grateful for everyone's input. And yes, I agree, she seems to know what she's talking about
gaius Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 What does love your hands around to her parts mean? If it doesn't mean a little flirting, long stares, kissing and nibbling then that's probably the reason her parts weren't ready for your hand love. Gotta get women going a little first can't just crank start them. Having made out earlier doesn't count!
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 What does love your hands around to her parts mean? If it doesn't mean a little flirting, long stares, kissing and nibbling then that's probably the reason her parts weren't ready for your hand love. Gotta get women going a little first can't just crank start them. Having made out earlier doesn't count! Lol. Never going to live that down. Darn autocorrect The thing that is confusing me is that she didn't just say straight out "You can't do that because I have my period now". She just giggled and pushed my hands away. Not the best way to let me know what's going on!
David87 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Lol. Never going to live that down. Darn autocorrect The thing that is confusing me is that she didn't just say straight out "You can't do that because I have my period now". She just giggled and pushed my hands away. Not the best way to let me know what's going on! As you get older you'll learn that girls don't just tell you when to do it and when not to do it. You will sense all of this things. No girl will tell you " do me now right here on the table" in fact they will at some point but have patience ) lol
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 As you get older you'll learn that girls don't just tell you when to do it and when not to do it. You will sense all of this things. No girl will tell you " do me now right here on the table" in fact they will at some point but have patience ) lol I find her lack of directness disturbing I guess she is just too nice to say no directly.
David87 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I find her lack of directness disturbing I guess she is just too nice to say no directly. Bingo See you already started to learn.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 Bingo See you already started to learn. So what's your take on her behaviour last night? Am I close?
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Dude...It's called autocorrect Which is what she was doing to you..... see? It all makes sense now.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 Which is what she was doing to you..... see? It all makes sense now. Lol. Nice one not the kind of autocorrect I hoped for though
clia Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I find her lack of directness disturbing I guess she is just too nice to say no directly. Or maybe she felt embarrassed to tell you she was on her period while you two were in bed together and you were trying to grope her. Some girls are shy about sharing personal details like that; doing it over text might have felt more safe to her. Also, slow down, dude! You haven't even taken her on a date yet. Don't be too pushy about the sex thing. 1
soccerrprp Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 So true! The scary part is I had no idea. She didn't behave ant differently from normal, no PMS, and there were no physical signs. She was her usual sweet self! Not all women show any signs of change during their period.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 Or maybe she felt embarrassed to tell you she was on her period while you two were in bed together and you were trying to grope her. Some girls are shy about sharing personal details like that; doing it over text might have felt more safe to her. Also, slow down, dude! You haven't even taken her on a date yet. Don't be too pushy about the sex thing. Thanks clia! This is great insight. Could you hazard a guess as to why she giggled though? Did she think it was amusing to make me squirm? Was it ticklish? Or was it just embarrassment?
soccerrprp Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Thanks clia! This is great insight. Could you hazard a guess as to why she giggled though? Did she think it was amusing to make me squirm? Was it ticklish? Or was it just embarrassment? All of the above. It felt good to be spooned, close to someone she likes. When you get closer and get to know her much better, she'll likely be more open about such things. My gf tells me when it's that time of the month, not b/c it stops us from having sex (it doesn't), but to just warn me when we do. GET TO KNOW HER.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 All of the above. It felt good to be spooned, close to someone she likes. When you get closer and get to know her much better, she'll likely be more open about such things. My gf tells me when it's that time of the month, not b/c it stops us from having sex (it doesn't), but to just warn me when we do. GET TO KNOW HER. Hey don't make me feel bad. We've been friends for a long time. I thought I did know her pretty well!
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Funny.... that's what divorcees say about their 'ex spouse-of-15-years'.... Don't ever, ever fall into the trap of believing you ever know someone 'pretty well'... Every person has surprises in store, no matter how long the relationship. 2
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 Funny.... that's what divorcees say about their 'ex spouse-of-15-years'.... Don't ever, ever fall into the trap of believing you ever know someone 'pretty well'... Every person has surprises in store, no matter how long the relationship. Good point. What I do know about her I love, though... I still can't believe my luck that I am with her.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 I know it's harping on, but based on her actions, how likely do you all think it is that we are going to have sex in the near future? I know I am not entitled to it or anything but as a 22 year old virgin it's kind of upsetting to be so close yet so far
seekingpeaceinlove Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Oh relax, Medium. Some girls are embarrassed to talk about the fact that they're on their period. Your gf tried being coy but it bothers you, let her know that you're fine with her telling you that type of thing and to feel open with you. Not a biggie. I find her lack of directness disturbing I guess she is just too nice to say no directly. 2
seekingpeaceinlove Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 You've been in a relationship with her for a few days, no? You need to ease up a bit. Trust me, it'll happen but take your time. The build up is half the fun..and when it actually happens..it'll be worth the wait! Enjoy quality time with her and take it slow. When it happens, it'll be more meaningful. I know it's harping on, but based on her actions, how likely do you all think it is that we are going to have sex in the near future? I know I am not entitled to it or anything but as a 22 year old virgin it's kind of upsetting to be so close yet so far
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Oh relax, Medium. Some girls are embarrassed to talk about the fact that they're on their period. Your gf tried being coy but it bothers you, let her know that you're fine with her telling you that type of thing and to feel open with you. Not a biggie. My H is so open to things like that, he once came home with 18 packs of tampons.... "Well!", he protested, "They were on offer! You're gonna need them, aren't you - ?!" *sigh*.... 1
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