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My girlfriend asked me to join her house sitting for her uncle. We had a good time, made dinner together and watched a DVD, and then made out. We got ready for bed and then she asked if I wanted to sleep in the same bed. I'm yes! Lol.

 

But there was no action. I kept trying to love my hands around to her parts, but she just giggled and moved my hands away. Agonising!

 

What was she doing?

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Trying to get some sleep? :D

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Trying to be respectful of her uncle's property and not having sex in his bed, perhaps?

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What was she doing?

Any reason you didn't ask her that?

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She wanted the closeness but not the sex.

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I counted. This is your 7th thread on this girl and you haven't been on here even a week. You're giving Phantom888 a run for his money!

 

Why don't you just ask her. OR just chill and see what happens next time you sleep together and then talk to her about it if need be (best solution I think).

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The fact she made out with you doesn't mean she is willing to have intercourse. Obviously, she didn't.

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"I kept trying to love my hands around to her parts" That line had me loling

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Personally, I wouldn't share a bed with a woman I was interested in if there was no prospect for action, unless one of us was too tired or sick.

 

I'm not masochistic enough to deal with that.

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I'm guessing you guys haven't had sex yet?

 

You're a virgin right? Is she as well?

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Any reason you didn't ask her that?

 

Well, it's a very new relationship and I don't want her to think I'm only after that one thing :) Which I'm not, by the way, but it would be nice!

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She wanted the closeness but not the sex.

 

You have no idea what state I was in by the the time I got back to my place - lol. Maybe I was just expecting too much so soon into the relationship.

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I'm guessing you guys haven't had sex yet?

 

You're a virgin right? Is she as well?

 

Yes I am. She isn't.

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Personally, I wouldn't share a bed with a woman I was interested in if there was no prospect for action, unless one of us was too tired or sick.

 

I'm not masochistic enough to deal with that.

 

I thought there might be a good chance since we are in a relationship, though. ..

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How old are you both?

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This is the type of evening wanted 2 weeks ago but the girl who came over wanted take her clothes off and wanted sex

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How old are you both?

 

I'm 22. She's 20. We've known each other since last year but only entered into a relationship recently.

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This is the type of evening wanted 2 weeks ago but the girl who came over wanted take her clothes off and wanted sex

 

A! Stop bragging you lucky dog :)

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Trying to get some sleep? :D

 

Lol. Pretty funny I have to admit :)

 

It's just that this was the first time we have slept in a bed together and I expected... something.

 

During our friendship she stayed over at my place a few times but I always slept on the couch and she slept in my bed.

 

Maybe I am expecting too much too soon. We've only been in a relationship for a few days and haven't even been on a date yet.

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"I kept trying to love my hands around to her parts" That line had me loling

 

Dude...It's called autocorrect :)

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you should have spiced things up and asked her has she ever had a passion mark on her buttcheek:D

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you should have spiced things up and asked her has she ever had a passion mark on her buttcheek:D

 

Lol.... yeah I definitely should have.

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Have patience, you've just started to date this girl. Besides you were at her uncle's house as a guest. You got lucky cuz she let you sleep in the same bed with her. It will happen but she is not ready to make this step. Does she know that you're a virgin?

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Have patience, you've just started to date this girl. Besides you were at her uncle's house as a guest. You got lucky cuz she let you sleep in the same bed with her. It will happen but she is not ready to make this step. Does she know that you're a virgin?

 

Yes she knows. :)

 

Lol she sent me a text asking If I wondered why she did that! !

 

It turns out she had her period... but why couldn't she just tell me that, instead of just giggling?

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Now I don't really understand this.

 

She told me it was her period and that's why she didn't let me... but she didn't say anything at the time, just giggled and moved my hands away.

 

Was she really doing it for that reason? Or is it possible she's playing around with me?

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