Lizrd3000 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Quick history: My girlfriend broke up with me on october the first. I came to this forum two days later for help. Everyone told me to go NC. After a bit of LC (her initiating contact and me being rather quick to end the conversation) I went complete NC after 2 weeks of LC. the NC duration was 3 weeks, that's when I contacted her because she kept asking my friends how I was doing behind my back, due to me not talking to her ofcourse. we started talking, and decided to meet at my house. we met on november the 10th, the day which consisted of serious talk, fun time, and the ''let's get back together'' talk. the break up only lasted a month and a week, and everyone on here told me that's a break off too little time apart for two people to change. Let me tell you, you guys couldn't have been more wrong. We both have changed drastically, and have been together ever since november the 10th. The relationship has never been this good, ever. We're both young, her being 17, and me being 18, which does not matter at all, actually, but I felt the need to make sure I pointed this out. Conclussion: the tips and advice given on this website are AWESOME, but there is NO WAY that everyone's story and ex-relationships are identique, therefore, not all advice given is the advice everyone should follow. You should follow your own instinct and gut-feeling. This is in no way a rant, but I promised to check back a few months into the relationship, and some even told me I'll be back in a month, and not to check in, but for advice. I'm here to tell you that's not the case at all. If anything I posted doesn't make sense, I'm sorry. Concerta stopped working
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Hope it works out for u and please do update as Im sure lots of people would love to know how a reconciliation pans out xx
Author Lizrd3000 Posted March 18, 2014 Author Posted March 18, 2014 (edited) Hope it works out for u and please do update as Im sure lots of people would love to know how a reconciliation pans out xx Will do! I'll probably check in again in a month or two! I hope everyone here has a good day, and I hope everyone get's over their ex's soon enough. I know how hard it is, I'm happy I'm out of that place. Don't take my OP as hope for your situation, hope doesn't do you any good in the situation you're in. What I was trying to say was, be you, do you, and be able to live with the outcome of it. Take advice from the experts, but pour in a little bit of YOU while you're at it! Edited March 18, 2014 by Lizrd3000
Mariposa10 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 How can age not matter? You guys can break up and get back together as many times as you guys want, I mean you two are still teenagers!! This is the perfect age to do what you guys are doing. Thanks for including your and your gf's ages, so everybody can keep that in mind when reading your thread. I'm glad things have worked out for you too, enjoy it
AlphaC Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Will do! I'll probably check in again in a month or two! I hope everyone here has a good day, and I hope everyone get's over their ex's soon enough. I know how hard it is, I'm happy I'm out of that place. Don't take my OP as hope for your situation, hope doesn't do you any good in the situation you're in. What I was trying to say was, be you, do you, and be able to live with the outcome of it. Take advice from the experts, but pour in a little bit of YOU while you're at it! I'm sorry bro but the above made me laugh. You are not "out of that place." Instead of getting over your ex you went back to her, that's going backwards, that's prolonging your misery or shall I say, deferring it!! Anyway, you are young (18) so I'll cut you some slack. 2
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