Have you ever felt like keeping it casual is the way to go?

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I have been dating someone for a while. She with her mother took care of a sick father. It was hard to get time to go out. Then he got in the hospital. Things changed i tried to be understanding. We met working at same job. A patient fixed us up. She got fired and then o didnt hear from her. I texted to find out how she was. She texted back why are you worried about me you dont need to worry. A few days later she texted she wasnt talking to anyone but dad and doctors. I get the distinct feeling there is another guy. There was just a bunch of things that didnt make sense. I will admit i do have trust issues but im not jealous. A week went by of not hearing for her and the fact numerous times i said i wanted to be there for her.i decided to move on. I just feel like i shouldnt waste my time for someone not talking to me even when i make an effort to be supportive.

 

Im just tired of when i actually am the understanding guy i get sh#tted on. I notice when i do the casual thing i never get that

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Not really casual. Have you ever felt that you should stick with what works for you? It doesn't matter if its having casual flings, friends first or whatever. Do you have the problem that when you deviate from what you do that works in dating you end up hurt, rejected, etc