Just broke up, we live a few doors aparts, any thoughts on how to handle this l

[Cal2222]

My ex has been going thru quite a bit of stress. First she wanted a break, then the break up a few days later. Normally I would just be calm, this isn't the first time she acted this way, normally she gets over it in a few days or so. This time is different and instead of blowing it off, I lost my cool and went back and forth with her arguing about any and everything. i know she is just stressed and needs me to be the strong one, but life hasn't been a cake walk for me this past year and i wasn't my best, I let myself get very emotional.. long story short, we live in the same apartment building, her upstairs, me on the ground floor. Im going to see her on a daily basis, walking to the car, taking out the dog, etc.. I think she is perfect and would be happy to give her time, no contact, and then see if we can work it out down the road. But how is that going to be possible? anyone ever been is a spot like this?

[somegoodman]

I would do your best to move out. The pain of seeing her come home with other men, should that happen, is not something you want to go through.

 

 

And don't think that she won't try to make her actions visible to you. She WILL try to hurt you so just eject yourself before it comes to that.

[Cal2222]

im planning on moving in a few months, i dont think she would throw dating in my face like that, but you never know.

little more background, when i said ive had a bad year, i lost a parent and job of more than 15 years

[somegoodman]

im planning on moving in a few months, i dont think she would throw dating in my face like that

 

 

 

Oh, she would and will. Sorry about your bad year, but understand that your ex is not going to empathize with you and she won't be there for you. Only you have your back, remember that

[L1ght]

I think sometimes we have to hear about people in worse predicaments to realise that actually things ain't so bad for us.

On my street a guy who has a wife and kids moved into the house next door but one with a single mom who he was caught cheating with. Its honestly like something out of a soap opera but in actual fact its real life.

 

 

I suggest you make plans to move on with your life before she finds someone else and rubs it in your face. Good luck.

[David87]

Sorry this happend to you. Unfortunately she doesn't want a relationship with you at the moment. Move out asasp because it will hurt so bad to se her with another dude, trust me it sucks.