inee Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I started talking to this girl a month ago and things moved fast. Long story short I asked her to be my girlfriend after 2 weeks, she said yes. Just today she said that she feels like I like her more than she likes me and shes stressed out with school and her friends hating her and her mom being annoying (all are true). She said it wasn't fair for me because I was such a nice and loving person for her to just always be stressed and in a bad mood. Shes about to go on spring break and im about to go on vacation and I was worried about her doing things while I was gone and this was perfect timing for her. She told me that she still likes me a lot, just maybe not as much as she thought. She also said "you asked me if I was over all other guys and I said yes, but I still see these guys everyday(at school) and I dont know how I feel and thats not fair too you." She told me she will text me in a few days once she has made her decision. I want your guys opinions because this is really hard for me because I liked her a lot and now theirs just a big whole in my life. Any opinions will be greatly appreciated!
redbaron005 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I started talking to this girl a month ago and things moved fast. Long story short I asked her to be my girlfriend after 2 weeks, she said yes. Just today she said that she feels like I like her more than she likes me and shes stressed out with school and her friends hating her and her mom being annoying (all are true). She said it wasn't fair for me because I was such a nice and loving person for her to just always be stressed and in a bad mood. Shes about to go on spring break and im about to go on vacation and I was worried about her doing things while I was gone and this was perfect timing for her. She told me that she still likes me a lot, just maybe not as much as she thought. She also said "you asked me if I was over all other guys and I said yes, but I still see these guys everyday(at school) and I dont know how I feel and thats not fair too you." She told me she will text me in a few days once she has made her decision. I want your guys opinions because this is really hard for me because I liked her a lot and now theirs just a big whole in my life. Any opinions will be greatly appreciated! To be honest - the fact that she has to think about it is a bad sign. Looks to me like she wants some freedom for her spring break trip and is aiming for a "soft landing" to not hurt you. You never know though - I would just be prepared to be let down gently and not take it hard or be clingy.
somegoodman Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Long story short I asked her to be my girlfriend after 2 weeks, she said yes. Never try to define the relationship, that is her job. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, she has to be the one asking you for a relationship. Just today she said that she feels like I like her more than she likes me and shes stressed out with school and her friends hating her and her mom being annoying (all are true). She has no interest in you because of what I stated above. She said it wasn't fair for me because I was such a nice and loving person for her to just always be stressed and in a bad mood. Shes about to go on spring break and im about to go on vacation and I was worried about her doing things while I was gone and this was perfect timing for her. She told me that she still likes me a lot, just maybe not as much as she thought. She also said "you asked me if I was over all other guys and I said yes, but I still see these guys everyday(at school) and I dont know how I feel and thats not fair too you." She's telling you everything you need to know. You are a nice (unattractive) and loving (clingy) person for her to always be stressed (unattracted to you) and in a bad mood (in a relationship with someone she has no interest in). She told you that she still likes you a lot (she has no desire for you whatsoever) just maybe not as much as she thought (she thought you were an option until you asked her to be your girlfriend). She also said "you asked me if I was over all other guys and I said yes, but I still see these guys everyday(at school) and I dont know how I feel and thats not fair too you. ("I see all these other guys and I can't wait to let them at me because they are attractive and unavailable. I plan on slutting it up at Spring Break and never seeing you again.") She told me she will text me in a few days once she has made her decision. She already made her decision and she won't text you. I want your guys opinions because this is really hard for me because I liked her a lot and now theirs just a big whole in my life. Any opinions will be greatly appreciated! The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon | Chateau Heartiste 1
organizedchaos Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I started talking to this girl a month ago and things moved fast. Long story short I asked her to be my girlfriend after 2 weeks, she said yes. Just today she said that she feels like I like her more than she likes me and shes stressed out with school and her friends hating her and her mom being annoying (all are true). She said it wasn't fair for me because I was such a nice and loving person for her to just always be stressed and in a bad mood. Shes about to go on spring break and im about to go on vacation and I was worried about her doing things while I was gone and this was perfect timing for her. She told me that she still likes me a lot, just maybe not as much as she thought. She also said "you asked me if I was over all other guys and I said yes, but I still see these guys everyday(at school) and I dont know how I feel and thats not fair too you." She told me she will text me in a few days once she has made her decision. I want your guys opinions because this is really hard for me because I liked her a lot and now theirs just a big whole in my life. Any opinions will be greatly appreciated! You've only dated a month right? Move on! 1
Author inee Posted March 18, 2014 Author Posted March 18, 2014 Ok so a little update I texted her and pretty much said if your doing this for me this isnt what I want so be honest and tell if its for you. She said "Im doing this for me. I dont expect you to understand, but all I ask is that u dont hate me too" I said "I wont hate you but is this because you didnt like me as much as you thought you did?" She said "maybe. I dont im just confused. And I just feel rushed on a lot of things. That was pretty much the end of our conversation. That last text was so confusing. Im so worried about this whole thing because I still like her and cant believe I lost her because we had such good times together, but theres still the possibility she might come back. I cant sleep because of this and I know it was only a month but its just so hard.
TaraMaiden Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Quit. You sound desperate, needy and overly emotional. Do you both a favour and go No Contact, completely. (Hint: it's in my signature....)
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