sly_fly1 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 i have never dumped someone. i never want to. i see the pain it brings to people and i just could not imagine ever doing that to anyone, especially someone that loves me or that i love. it makes me wonder if dumpers have ever been dumped? n realize the intense pain and scar it leaves on someone for the rest of their life. anyways, the real question i have is, how would you explain the intense pain that your loved one did to you, the deep scar they left, explain in a metaphor please, heres mine. it went from being calm, n quiet to a large ripping in my chest, a red hot sharp dagger slowly entered through my back, into my left lung and pierced through my heart , the tip of the blade popped out of my chest, so shocked i couldnt even scream. i then fell to my knees looking into the reflection of my own blood, to see no either than my true love, pulling the knife out, twisting it on the way, i couldnt catch my breath, because the pain was so intense, i looked up at her and asked why, she said nothing with a smirk on her face, she then wiped a tear from my eye, and disappeared. just interested if your metaphor is similar to mine, lets see whos was the most intense.
Mr.Pine Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 it went from being calm, n quiet to a large ripping in my chest, a red hot sharp dagger slowly entered through my back, into my left lung and pierced through my heart , the tip of the blade popped out of my chest, so shocked i couldnt even scream. i then fell to my knees looking into the reflection of my own blood, to see no either than my true love, pulling the knife out, twisting it on the way, i couldnt catch my breath, because the pain was so intense, i looked up at her and asked why, she said nothing with a smirk on her face, she then wiped a tear from my eye, and disappeared. Dude, you just lifted Game of Thrones' next episode. Plagiarizer!
Author sly_fly1 Posted March 18, 2014 Author Posted March 18, 2014 no way i just made that up myself, im gonna check that out right now 1
Mr.Pine Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 no way i just made that up myself, im gonna check that out right now Damn, I love this place. 1
WhiteTan Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 (edited) Breaking up is one of the worst feelings ever. but at the end of the day, I'd rather experience that than waste time being with somebody who doesn't love me and only stays because they'd feel guilty about dumping me. I loved my ex with everything I had but I'm glad things are where they are at this point because I want to marry somebody who loves me unconditionally. Nobody who gives up on you is worth being in your life. no exceptions. Edited March 18, 2014 by WhiteTan 4
redbaron005 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Nobody who gives up on you is worth being in your life. no exceptions Disagree. What about parents, kids, and even yourself? This statement is naive, forgiveness is a form of love and sometimes people slip up and give up. Such worthiness should not be contingent solely on loyalty. It's simply more complicated than that. OP - like Wild E Coyote getting hit by a steam train from the tunnel he just drew. The light at the end of the tunnel was hope at first but manifest itself in its true nature. It's good to know though that somehow that coyote always lives to fight another day.
WhiteTan Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 (edited) Disagree. What about parents, kids, and even yourself? This statement is naive, forgiveness is a form of love and sometimes people slip up and give up. Such worthiness should not be contingent solely on loyalty. It's simply more complicated than that. OP - like Wild E Coyote getting hit by a steam train from the tunnel he just drew. The light at the end of the tunnel was hope at first but manifest itself in its true nature. It's good to know though that somehow that coyote always lives to fight another day. You took my post out of context.. if your comprehension skills are to par, you will understand that I was referring to the relationship dynamic in particular. but I did say no exceptions and since you took it upon yourself to be contrary, there are situations where people are better off without their families, like it or not. To say those circumstances don't exist is "naïve." If your kids turn their back on you, it's probably your fault as a parent and it's on you to fix it.. but otherwise, I stand by what I said. shouldn't have needed to elaborate on that but thank you for your input anyway Edited March 18, 2014 by WhiteTan
Hoosfoos Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I would rather have the living s#it kicked out of me and hospitalized for a month than go through the pain of being dumped.
smuggy95 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 sometimes the dumper is being honest, and maybe we were too scared/complacent/naive to call things what they were. and in that context, i think it sucks, totally sucks, but the dumper should get props for that.
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