c0nfused88 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I am a pretty big flirt (and have been told). I am generally friendly to everyone I meet and also pretty flirtatious and I joke around often. It is pretty easy for me to make friends and get along with most people. However, what comes with this are many men thinking I might be interested or misinterpreting signals. I am in a relationship so this is much more problematic than if I was single. For those of you who are in relationships and are generally flirtatious people how do you change or how have you changed since being in a relationship? How you decide what is appropriate and what is no longer appropriate?
d0nnivain Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I'm married & I still think PG flirting is fine in person. Going out of your way to flirt by calling or texting or sending messages on FB is out of bounds. Reign it in my limiting the touching. Sit on your hands or cross your arms if you have to. Make sure the person you are flirting with knows you have a SO. Just draw the boundaries very clearly
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I'm a big flirt also and in a relationship. But like the above poster said, don't take it any further than friendly flirting; no texts, touching, calls, going out etc. Flirting is fun and there is something about it that just relieves stress and ignites happiness. Most of the people I flirt with aren't even my type, that's not the point of flirting, it's just enjoying another person and making light of a situation. Especially at work, it makes the day go by faster! My boyfriend is a big flirt too, he doesn't mean anything by it and doesn't take it any further than banter. And I'm okay with that.
PegNosePete Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I am a pretty big flirt ... what comes with this are many men thinking I might be interested or misinterpreting signals. Hmm - so you're sending out flirty signals, then blaming others for "misinterpreting" them. It sounds to me like they're interpreting them exactly right, as flirty signals. Why are you surprised they think you're interested, if you're sending out signals that you're interested?
Secret Advisor Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Sometimes a flirt is a person that is constantly looking for validation of their "cuteness".
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