PinkDotsXOXO Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 (edited) *Post on another forum because they are related. Thanks for all your help guys! So a little background, I’ve been doing some online dating, things seem to work out in the beginning, we go out on a date, it goes well, I get a hug goodbye, we talk for a day more then I never hear from the guy again. Due to this, I now have anxiety that if I let myself get close to someone I will just get rejected. So I met this new guy on Friday and we seemed to really hit it off. That night we listened to his friend’s band, we kissed, and danced together and I had so much fun. We have been texting back and forth since then and made plans to meet up again. Usually, either I will tell him I will text him at some point or I tell him to text me & he does (this obviously has only been going on a few days because we just met Friday). Yesterday, I went to his house and we talked for a bit and ended up making out. We were not sure how far to take things, so as things got heated we decided to stop before we slept together because he said he didn’t want to ruin a potentially good thing as when he has slept with girls in the past and then tried to possibly date them it didn’t work out. Although we didn’t sleep together, we did some intimate things together. It was late and he had to be up early so he kissed me goodbye and gave me a long hug. I said goodnight and told him to text me today. I know he works until 6:00 today but I have so much anxiety that he won’t text me. If he doesn’t, should I text him tonight? How long should I wait? Did we ruin a potentially good thing? Does not holding off on sexual things ruin a potential relationship? Btw he is 25 and I am 24. Thanks again guys!! Edited March 18, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
GoreSP Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 First of all - if he actually really likes you he will text you as promised. There is this sweet guy texting me lately - and last Friday he texted me ahead of time to tell me that if he didn't answer my text that night it was because he had a gig out of town and his cell doesn't always work out there. He really likes me. And like I said in another thread : if a guy really likes you - that won't change if you have sex with him on the first date. So chill, go about your day and see if he texts you tonight.
Assasda Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I think you should wait till he texts you. Definately have patience, even though youre excited. A little absence makes the heart grow fonder 1
HappyLove Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I'd advise you learn from your past and not move so fast.
deathandtaxes Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 You've been out two times already so go ahead and text him and ask him out again if you want to see him again!! If he's into you, he'll respond positively. If he's not, you won't have to waste your time waiting.
TXGuy Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 First of all - if he actually really likes you he will text you as promised. He didn't promise to text, she just told him to. But, I'm just splitting hairs here.
GoreSP Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 He didn't promise to text, she just told him to. But, I'm just splitting hairs here. Alright fine - let's split hair If he really like OP, he will text as she asked him too. Every time I've told/asked a guy to text me (as in text me after work - on your break ect) and he didn't - he turned out to be not that into me. 1
David87 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Wait for him to text. He really likes you because he didn't took advantage when he had the chance. Don't get to excited and you'll be fine I'm happy for you.
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