Thatone4 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 My ex and I have been broken up for almost two months. During this these times I begged and pleaded for her to come back to me. She slept with another man on more than one occasion during our break up. I made some dramatic changes to better myself and to try to win her back. So I agreed to let her go for after about about a month of begging. During these times we had sex about 8 times after the break up. She texted me about a week in a half of no contact and said she wanted to return a gift I bought her after the break up. She returned it and we made love again. The next day she texted me and said she missed me as a lover and said you don't have to respond and I did. She said she doesn't want a relationship at the moment but possible in the future. We meet up again and have dinner again since she wanted to see me. The other man is still in the picture and they still talk and she tells me she is willing to give me another chance but she never gave this new man a chance. She tells me she still loves me and has feelings for me and she doesn't feel the same way as she did a month ago towards me. She believes if we don't contact each other for aslong as possible again it would be beneficial. What do you guys think?
TaraMaiden Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I think you need to man up, quit being a doormat and kick her to the kerb. Go No Contact, and never entertain the two-timing cheating mare, in any way shape or form, verbally or physically, in person or otherwise, ever again. Well, you DID ask.... 3
KaliLove Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I think she's stringing you along in case things don't work out with this new guy. Or another guy. 3
Author Thatone4 Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 She did tell me this guy has asked her for a relationship but she wasn't ready. At first she wanted me back, than he did something dramatic and she wanted him, then last week she thought she wanted him but wants me.
TaraMaiden Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Oh good grief... drama queen air-head! You dodged a bullet - and that's the second time in the space of half an hour I've used that term on here! 2
lvroflife Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Step out the picture! Leave her alone let her focus on her and YOU focus on YOU and live tour life. Everyday she is losing respect for you. You know she is with someone else and your still being a bf. Why the hell would she respect you as a MAN? Walk and let her discover herself and life. She has a lot of growing up to do!!
Mr.Pine Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I made some dramatic changes to better myself and to try to win her back. No you didn't. A dramatic change would be you shucking this shrew to the curb. You made dramatic changes to try to "win her back"? My brother, that is NOT why you make dramatic changes. Changes are made to oneself to heal oneself and repair the damage a nasty break-up delivers us. During these times we had sex about 8 times after the break up. She texted me about a week in a half of no contact and said she wanted to return a gift I bought her after the break up. She returned it and we made love again. Another jilted dude blinded by the power of the kitty. Oy vey. She believes if we don't contact each other for aslong as possible again it would be beneficial. What do you guys think? What do I think? I think your ex is a smart cookie and you should heed her advice. No contact for as long as possible. Boom! 2
somegoodman Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 She doesn't love you. Also she is an attention wh0re, ignore her until she withers into dust.
Mr.Pine Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 She doesn't love you. Also she is an attention wh0re, ignore her until she withers into dust. So angry, yet so correct. 1
BradJacobs Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Made love? More like y'all just had sex after a break up. Is the other dude still sleeping with her as well? If so do y'all just trade off sloppy seconds?
Mr.Pine Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Made love? More like y'all just had sex after a break up. Is the other dude still sleeping with her as well? If so do y'all just trade off sloppy seconds? So nasty, yet so correct.
Author Thatone4 Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 You guys are probably going to hate me for this but we met up yesterday for dinner last night at a restaurant. After we eat we are sitting in my car talking she pulls up her Facebook and shows me a picture of her and I captioned "boyfriend" that she still has. She told me she told this other guy that she stills loves me and am doesn't know if it's a phase or if she truly loves me. Anyways it was a great night we did passionately kiss on a lot of occasions but today she is meeting up with this guy who has a surprise that she doesn't want to supposedly accept.
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Oh Jeesh.... it's like pulling teeth without anaesthetic.....
Simon Phoenix Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 You guys are probably going to hate me for this but we met up yesterday for dinner last night at a restaurant. After we eat we are sitting in my car talking she pulls up her Facebook and shows me a picture of her and I captioned "boyfriend" that she still has. She told me she told this other guy that she stills loves me and am doesn't know if it's a phase or if she truly loves me. Anyways it was a great night we did passionately kiss on a lot of occasions but today she is meeting up with this guy who has a surprise that she doesn't want to supposedly accept. Not as much as you should hate yourself for being a spineless weakling. 3
lvroflife Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 You really do not need any advice. You need to tell this to your friends. Because you like being her toy and doormat. She is not going to RESPECT you, EVER!! She was with you last night and now she is going out with this dude (may even sleep with him). She is getting ALL her CAKE and eating it too.. You are not ready for any relationship, you need to get a SPINE! WE can't be mad at her because she is being honest with you and you're allowing so she is NOT TO BLAME about anything. So keep being he doormat until that day the MAN steps up to her and then you're kicked to the curb! This is really sickening and pathetic!! 1
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 You really do not need any advice. You need to tell this to your friends. Because you like being her toy and doormat. She is not going to RESPECT you, EVER!! She was with you last night and now she is going out with this dude (may even sleep with him). She is getting ALL her CAKE and eating it too.. You are not ready for any relationship, you need to get a SPINE! WE can't be mad at her because she is being honest with you and you're allowing so she is NOT TO BLAME about anything. So keep being he doormat until that day the MAN steps up to her and then you're kicked to the curb! This is really sickening and pathetic!! No no....Don't hold back.... say what you mean, really!
lvroflife Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Tara I took a page from you. Usually you don't hold back! Hahaha This is really sad!!
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Tara I took a page from you. Usually you don't hold back! Hahaha Well that's really flattering, I appreciate it - but it has earned me a bit more than the occasonal slapped wrist, so be careful!! This is really sad!! ...but equally sadly, not unique! We see it happen a lot, and bizarrely, it's mainly guys who do this.....
Author Thatone4 Posted March 19, 2014 Author Posted March 19, 2014 You really do not need any advice. You need to tell this to your friends. Because you like being her toy and doormat. She is not going to RESPECT you, EVER!! She was with you last night and now she is going out with this dude (may even sleep with him). She is getting ALL her CAKE and eating it too.. You are not ready for any relationship, you need to get a SPINE! WE can't be mad at her because she is being honest with you and you're allowing so she is NOT TO BLAME about anything. So keep being he doormat until that day the MAN steps up to her and then you're kicked to the curb! This is really sickening and pathetic!!I told her if she wants to be with me she won't sleep with him again or any other guy I won't take her back. I now that won't stop stop her. She said if we do get back together if it's a year or two down the line she doesn't want to know who I've been with
lvroflife Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Lol! Omg Dude!! Are you serious???? Please wake up! I can't even comment on this anymore. I'll just say GOOD LUCK! AND HOPEFULLY ONE DAY YOU WILL OPEN YOUR EYES!!
Simon Phoenix Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 I told her if she wants to be with me she won't sleep with him again or any other guy I won't take her back. I now that won't stop stop her. She said if we do get back together if it's a year or two down the line she doesn't want to know who I've been with You are going to come back to this site one day, read the stupid, spineless crap you are posting and just want to shake the s--t out of yourself. I mean, why are you so weak? 2
Author Thatone4 Posted March 20, 2014 Author Posted March 20, 2014 I know she still loves me but she has the attention of two men :-/
KaliLove Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Oh my. Honey no..she doesn't love you. You really are a doormat and she's wiping her dirty feet all over you. If I were her I would have absolutely zero respect for you.
Conners Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 If she truly loved you, she would not even consider seeing another guy and would WANT to be with you 100%. You're her backup, security blanket, door mat. Nothing else.
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