vanellope Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I meet a man recently. We have good time, more above friends and under lovers. the conversation and the dating is not many times but always easy and comfortable, we laugh a lot when we are together. we are not kissing or doing what couple doing yet. He is moving recently, and he asked my opinion that how about moving to his place and lives with him. I was happy in fact my heart is running when he talk that, I feel it’s a kind of plan for future. I said, it will be good if we can near. But suddenly he told me, we should not get ahead of ourselves, and he is going to hurt my feelings. I ask him why he said this, and he said, he doesn't settle and he is rarely fall in love. In fact when I hear this, I am a bit uneasy, but I still smile and told him it’s ok, I understand and we can be friends. we are not young, we are 30s. so what does he think? I ask him if he mean I should not fall in love with him, he say he like me too, but he want me don’t get attached to him, he will hurt my feelings. Is he just not like me enough so telling all these to me?
David87 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 He asked you too soon to move in with him and then changed his mind.. that's rude. I mean it wasnt ok if you moved in with him but still to cancel the invitation after ..... that's a little strange.
Gaeta Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 You are right, he doesn't like you enough. When a man says *he will end up hurting you* it's because he knows you like him more than you do and his feelings won't grow anymore than they have already. This man treats you badly. He doesn't see you often, he doesn't treat you with kindness like a boyfriend should. Do yourself a favor and drop this one with no second thought. You deserve much much better.
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