SmartDude Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 So I sometimes go to this place that is a sauna/hot tub resort were clothing is optional. Its not a sexualy charged enviorment and if you start getting too horned up, you would easily be kicked out. I have had some good conversations with women there. Have observed others without talking and just kind of take in the whole scene. One exercise I have been doing lately is trying to intuitively determine were a woman is in the cycle of relationships. Some obviously want to be left alone. There are others who are there for a short time and then seem annoyed that I am not hitting on them. Then there are the ones who are deep in thought, perhaps thinking of someone they long for, a sadness is there. Then there are the women I am just not sure what they are thinking. Since I am single and there are like minded ladies there I kind of just forget about the whole nudity thing lol, because its not going to really help me if my thoughts go in that direction. It is definitely a balancing act. The difficult part comes when I try to determine if a lady is just shy, or a bit apprehensive because of that environment. As it turns out I am attracted to shy women who are introverted deep thinkers. I would love some advice on this if anyone would care to share. Random thoughts relating to this are cool to but no thread hijacking please.
David87 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Look them in their eyes that's the key, you could easily tell if they like you or not, even if their shy. Eye contact is the key.
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