Medium.Lumo Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 So I need an idea for a first date with my girlfriend. The catch is that it has to be something special that we haven't already done just as friends. Ideas like the following will not be acceptable: Dinner Movies Picnics Hiking Theme parks Zoo Etc We have already been to all those places as a couple but as friends. I know this puts pressure on me to come up with something really unique for our first date, but at the same time it gives me an opportunity to make our first date really special. So please guys. .. give me your ideas
David87 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Wow, I would suggest a simple picnic, but since you already done this ... ) Ok so go rafting, bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving, something that she will remember.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 Wow, I would suggest a simple picnic, but since you already done this ... ) Ok so go rafting, bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving, something that she will remember. Thanks David Good ideas. I'm thinking of combining one major idea like one of the ones from your list, and then afterwards something more common like a dinner or something, and then end with a major symbolic gift. I'm not sure if that's going overboard. I'll have to plan it carefully.
David87 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Thanks David Good ideas. I'm thinking of combining one major idea like one of the ones from your list, and then afterwards something more common like a dinner or something, and then end with a major symbolic gift. I'm not sure if that's going overboard. I'll have to plan it carefully. I think that you are going overboard with the gift. But other than that it's good. Have fun.
organizedchaos Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 So I need an idea for a first date with my girlfriend. The catch is that it has to be something special that we haven't already done just as friends. Ideas like the following will not be acceptable: Dinner Movies Picnics Hiking Theme parks Zoo Etc We have already been to all those places as a couple but as friends. I know this puts pressure on me to come up with something really unique for our first date, but at the same time it gives me an opportunity to make our first date really special. So please guys. .. give me your ideas I'm confused. First date. And you refer to her as your girlfriend? Even if you've been friends before, how does she suddenly move to girlfriend status before having an actual date?
d0nnivain Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I know you said not dinner but you haven't done "dinner" like this. It was one of the best dates I ever had. BF sent a limo to pick me up at work. In the limo was a new outfit: Dress, shoes, underwear & jewelry. There was also a dozen red roses. Limo drove me home so I could get changed. When I came back out, there was champagne. Limo drove me to his house. Together we went to a fancy restaurant for dinner then an amazing concert. After the concert we took a romantic ride on a horse drawn carriage & then went home in the limo. Pick the parts of that work for you & your budget. You will give her a night to remember.
Fondue Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 How old are you and your gf? My usual first date is an arcade with a bar, for any girl I go out with for the first time. BUT if you already knew her for a while and hung out plenty, I would then challenge you to do something like this: If you live in drive-able distance to a casino or a city with casinos (say, Atlantic City), take a the trip in the evening, take her out to dinner there, play some tables for a while... And then when you're all tired out, take her into the room you booked (with a Jacuzzi!), relax in the tub, get handsy, have crazy sexy time. Wake up the next morning, more sexy time. Take her out for brunch, then drive back and drop her off at home. She'll be on the phone with all her friends that afternoon, telling them how much of an amazing time she just had. She will be envied, and that will make her<3 you even more.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 I'm confused. First date. And you refer to her as your girlfriend? Even if you've been friends before, how does she suddenly move to girlfriend status before having an actual date? Yes. We have been friends since last year. She started showing interest in me recently. So I requested a relationship on Facebook and she accepted. Although we haven't been on a date yet, we have been out to dinner, movies, events, attractions etc together as friends. Because we have done all this before dating, I need ideas to make the first date extra special.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 Wow that sounds amazing. I'll check it out Thanks. Sounds expensive but if it's possible I'd definitely like to fo it. I know you said not dinner but you haven't done "dinner" like this. It was one of the best dates I ever had. BF sent a limo to pick me up at work. In the limo was a new outfit: Dress, shoes, underwear & jewelry. There was also a dozen red roses. Limo drove me home so I could get changed. When I came back out, there was champagne. Limo drove me to his house. Together we went to a fancy restaurant for dinner then an amazing concert. After the concert we took a romantic ride on a horse drawn carriage & then went home in the limo. Pick the parts of that work for you & your budget. You will give her a night to remember.
d0nnivain Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Depending on the weather & budget what about a hot air balloon ride with champagne in the basket? A dinner cruise might work. Theater tickets could be good. Don't stress too much about this. She wants to spend time with you. If she likes you a lot, you could be sitting on a park bench & it would still be a great date. 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 I'm 22, she's 20. That sounds brilliant. will look into it. How old are you and your gf? My usual first date is an arcade with a bar, for any girl I go out with for the first time. BUT if you already knew her for a while and hung out plenty, I would then challenge you to do something like this: If you live in drive-able distance to a casino or a city with casinos (say, Atlantic City), take a the trip in the evening, take her out to dinner there, play some tables for a while... And then when you're all tired out, take her into the room you booked (with a Jacuzzi!), relax in the tub, get handsy, have crazy sexy time. Wake up the next morning, more sexy time. Take her out for brunch, then drive back and drop her off at home. She'll be on the phone with all her friends that afternoon, telling them how much of an amazing time she just had. She will be envied, and that will make her<3 you even more.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 Hot air balloon - brilliant !!! Dinner cruise - like a cruise ship for 1 day, or?? Theatre - done as friends already Depending on the weather & budget what about a hot air balloon ride with champagne in the basket? A dinner cruise might work. Theater tickets could be good. Don't stress too much about this. She wants to spend time with you. If she likes you a lot, you could be sitting on a park bench & it would still be a great date.
d0nnivain Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 No not a cruise ship. Nothing with a bed. Some boats sail around for 4-5 hours, show you the sights & feed you. If she is only 20 some of these ideas, especially AC won't work because she's not old enough. FWIW, a hot air balloon ride is about $300.
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