tofy Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 hiam having a problem with my gf..she is soo good..but i feel she suffers great sorrow..she alwasy tells me that she cries alone with no one besides her..she says that shes tired of ppl..and tired of being her friend's everything..do you know what i mean..i didnt know what to say..but i think shes living a lie to her self..and she denied that..am seeing her on friday..so any ideas on what can i do to help her..and ..because of her friends..she doesnt have time with me..while i canceled everything i had on mind..to free my time ..so i can spend it with her..its just not fair to see her go through this..and i want to help her.. one more thing..am quiet that wise guy..but..with her..i turn into a complete jerk..i always make fun of everything..and say stupid things that i'd never say..my friend said u r afraid of her cuz u love her..and maybe thats true,, thanks
kypepeo Posted January 27, 2005 Posted January 27, 2005 Her problem is that she gives so much of herself to others that she forgets to take care of herself. She has to learn how to balance her life better. She probably feels that she can't say no to a friend in need and pushes herself to help when she doesn't have the energy to do so. Force her to take better care of herself. Better yet,take care of her. Spoil her rotten and don't give her the option of turning you down. If she says she has to see her friends then go along with her. Let her know that you won't be shaken off that easily
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