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On POF i've had two girls message me. Both say they are looking for men. But both also dress like men and look like they might be lesbians... They also have a lot of the same interests as me. I could see myself hanging out with them as just friends they seem cool. So could they just be looking for friends? OR if you meet someone from a dating site is sex kind of expected?

 

Edit: And on their profiles it says looking for people to "hangout" with. But everyone knows "hangout" really means "bangout" on pof so idk. Don't wanna message them back if i'm just leading them on.

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This happened to me just recently. A girl messaged and she seemed cute but her pictures were a little vague so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. When we met in person I wasn't really feeling it but we actually had a really nice conversation and we really "got" each other, not really sure if she liked me or not. So the next day I texted saying something like:

 

"Hey, I think we're both getting a 'friends' vibe but that being said, you're a lot of fun to talk to you and if you ever wanted to do that again or whatever, it'd be cool, you've got some interesting ideas!" She affirmed.

 

I never really expected to hear from her again but that same week she invited me to her birthday party and then to a work party of hers this past weekend and they were both incredibly fun. One of her friends is cute so that might complicate things a little, it might not be cool if I went after her.

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I've made some great friends from those dating sites. I'd say 95% of the people on there (well, guys, anyway) are looking just to hook up, but some of them are open to being just friends if the date went well, but neither feels a romantic connection. Just be straight up with the girls and let them know that you think they are cool, but are just looking for friends and see if they want to hang out.

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I think that it's a great thing to connect with people as friends. Worst case, you never see them again, best case, you make a friend.

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Be honest with the, Tell them you could be interested in a friendship. i think as long as you are honest its ok.

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