LazyTee Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Why do I constantly have dreams about my ex-gf? We broke up 2 days ago. (I decided to remain friends since I know a feeling was mutual during the decision of the breakup) but again after again the dreams consist of her with someone else I think, its just all a blur. My head hurts.
kjackson1 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 The break up is fresh and she is on your mind. This is quite normal to go through.
Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 From experience, every time I had a dream of my ex I knew it was a for sure sign he will contact me soon, and he always did. Then again maybe your thinking about the breakup a lot and dreaming about it, or sometimes there thinking of you. Don't worry to much about it.. unless your unable to sleep well.
4everalones Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 3 weeks is too soon to be friends. You should go No contact and take some time to heal. It's normal to feel that way a few weeks after the breakup. Also, there is no such a thing as a mutual breakup. Someone is always a bit resistant to let go, and I think in this case that would be you. You cannot be friends with an ex right after the breakup. You need to take some time away form her to heal and move on. It's hard, but it's the best thing you can do at this point. Please read the No Contact guide in the forum's main page. It will help you a lot.
David87 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Why do I constantly have dreams about my ex-gf? We broke up 2 days ago. (I decided to remain friends since I know a feeling was mutual during the decision of the breakup) but again after again the dreams consist of her with someone else I think, its just all a blur. My head hurts. Stop being friends with your ex, is way to soon and you still have strong feelings for her. By doing this you are only prolonging your suffering. You need to start NC immediately.
StubbornSam Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I'm about 2 1/2 months post BU, and I still consistently have dreams with my ex. At first they were romantic and sensual, but they've become more and more nightmarish with time. They're very surreal and I wake up feeling terrible every time. She's the last thing I think about before I go to bed and the first thing I think about when I wake up. It's getting better though slowly but surely.
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