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How long do men wait to call after getting a number?


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Met a guy Friday night. Really hit it off. He kept saying how he was so happy to meet someone he could have an intelligent conversation with. He asked for my number and called there because he said my number sounded fake lol. Said he wanted to take me to dinner. Anyway talked for 3 hours and he texted me to make sure I got home ok and that he'd talk to me soon.

 

I'm not good with the dating soon so how long should I wait for a call?

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I'm in a weird place where I'm collecting numbers but never calling. When I did though it was usually a couple days.

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I'm in a weird place where I'm collecting numbers but never calling. When I did though it was usually a couple days.

 

I've heard of guys doing this

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A couple of days. Unless we've already agreed to go somewhere, in which case I'll leave her alone until that day or the day before.

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A couple of days. Unless we've already agreed to go somewhere, in which case I'll leave her alone until that day or the day before.

 

So if I don't hear by tomorrow I probably won't? We didn't have a specific day lined up

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Since I don't play games, the next day to set up a date.

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Since I don't play games, the next day to set up a date.

 

I don't either but maybe he is. If not no big deal. Didn't kiss him just hugged so no regrets. (I'm more conservative)

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He'll probably call by Wednesday.

 

 

If he texts, call him to say, "hi." Try to stay away from long textos, especially when trying to set something up.

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He'll probably call by Wednesday.

 

 

If he texts, call him to say, "hi." Try to stay away from long textos, especially when trying to set something up.

 

Good advice. I can't stand guys who try to be text buddies. Went on a date a few months ago, wanted to see me again he said but would text and not make plans. No thanks. I'm not a big texter myself. If I'm interested I want to see that person in person

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Good advice. I can't stand guys who try to be text buddies. Went on a date a few months ago, wanted to see me again he said but would text and not make plans. No thanks. I'm not a big texter myself. If I'm interested I want to see that person in person

 

 

OMG this sounds like the last guy that tried to date ME! I went NC on his ass so he can get the message. I HATE LAME GUYS THAT DO THIS SHYT!

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I'm in a weird place where I'm collecting numbers but never calling. When I did though it was usually a couple days.

 

 

Can I ask why you do this? I have guys approach me all the time, and on the occasion when I do give them my number, many of them NEVER call or text me. It drives me crazy. Why approach and ask for a number if you're not interested enough to actually use it?

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Can I ask why you do this? I have guys approach me all the time, and on the occasion when I do give them my number, many of them NEVER call or text me. It drives me crazy. Why approach and ask for a number if you're not interested enough to actually use it?

It's just a nice seal of approval from women. Sometimes for whatever reason a guy might not be interested in dating but the approval part is still nice.

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OMG this sounds like the last guy that tried to date ME! I went NC on his ass so he can get the message. I HATE LAME GUYS THAT DO THIS SHYT!

 

Exactly these types of guys just want attention no thanks. And they say us women attention seeking

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Generally wait until Monday evening if we met at weekend.

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