NC Broken for good reason? think ex was seeing someone else while she was with me..

[JLOW888]

Things took a turn for the worse yesterday, i was informed that my ex is back with her ex before me. This is the lad who hurt her and who she said she would never go back to. I mean now i think she was seeing him while she was with me and at the very least she would have still liked him right? It was a month give or take that we hadn't spoken, i thought i deserved to know the truth?, hence why i text her. The thing that infuriates me is that she knows i still love her and at the very least she should have had the decency to tell me?

I text her asking for an explanation, she got pretty angry to say the least, refusing to give me an explanation... does this just confirm my thoughts that she was with him while she was with me?. Anyway things got pretty heated, her dad got involved ect ect... So know i am in a position where i think she lied to me for 6 months and i have no clarity on the situation... what should i do?

[TaraMaiden]

Keep well clear and out of it.

She's your EX, and what she does now, is none of your business.

 

Just as how you live your life now, is none of hers.

[KaliLove]

I'm sorry she did that to you, that's terrible..but she doesn't actually owe you anything anymore except silence.

 

Think positively. You can be angry instead of hurt now. That will help you get over her faster!

[Lifegoezon]

You should do nothing but recognise you dodged a bullet if she's a cheat and a liar. It changes nothing. It's over and contacting her to talk about any of it is just an excuse for YOU to break NC. And it's not a good reason at all.

[saltyfishhead666]

Things took a turn for the worse yesterday, i was informed that my ex is back with her ex before me. This is the lad who hurt her and who she said she would never go back to. I mean now i think she was seeing him while she was with me and at the very least she would have still liked him right? It was a month give or take that we hadn't spoken, i thought i deserved to know the truth?, hence why i text her. The thing that infuriates me is that she knows i still love her and at the very least she should have had the decency to tell me?

I text her asking for an explanation, she got pretty angry to say the least, refusing to give me an explanation... does this just confirm my thoughts that she was with him while she was with me?. Anyway things got pretty heated, her dad got involved ect ect... So know i am in a position where i think she lied to me for 6 months and i have no clarity on the situation... what should i do?

 

 

She doesn't have to explain anything anymore and you have the right to know nothing.

 

She doesn't want you anymore and she does want him. I get that that sucks, and it's unfair but it's not your problem anymore.

 

Reassume no contact and move on. You can't do anything about the past anymore now or what she does now