Honeybun11 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I went out last night and I didn't realise my ex would be out, and not only was he out but he was out with his girlfriend! We broke up like 6 months ago and he started seeing his new girlfriend like 2 and a half months after we broke up. I was devastated about this as I thought it was too soon, I've lost weight the past three months cus I was so upset by it but I thought I was getting better. But seeing them last night just really made me feel like I'd fallen back into that hole they call heartbreak. I bumped into her on the dance floor and she was with someone I knew so I thought not to make it awkward I would introduce myself which was fine, and I just said I don't want this to be awkward. Anyway I walked away and saw my ex with his friends and he just completely blanked me. He looked at me then quickly looked away, I walked up to him and asked him for a chat and said I don't want this to be awkward and that, he said yeah that fine and all that and then he said I looked really good. (which stung!) Now being hungover and emotional today I stupidly messaged him cus I just dont want him to think he has to ignore me when we bump into each other but he hasn't replied. I'm so messed up I can't believe how long this is taking to get over him it's not fair that hes moved on and happy with someone else whereas I'm still hurting and getting over it.. STILL after SIX MONTHS!!
Keenly Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I went out last night and I didn't realise my ex would be out, and not only was he out but he was out with his girlfriend! We broke up like 6 months ago and he started seeing his new girlfriend like 2 and a half months after we broke up. I was devastated about this as I thought it was too soon, I've lost weight the past three months cus I was so upset by it but I thought I was getting better. But seeing them last night just really made me feel like I'd fallen back into that hole they call heartbreak. I bumped into her on the dance floor and she was with someone I knew so I thought not to make it awkward I would introduce myself which was fine, and I just said I don't want this to be awkward. Anyway I walked away and saw my ex with his friends and he just completely blanked me. He looked at me then quickly looked away, I walked up to him and asked him for a chat and said I don't want this to be awkward and that, he said yeah that fine and all that and then he said I looked really good. (which stung!) Now being hungover and emotional today I stupidly messaged him cus I just dont want him to think he has to ignore me when we bump into each other but he hasn't replied. I'm so messed up I can't believe how long this is taking to get over him it's not fair that hes moved on and happy with someone else whereas I'm still hurting and getting over it.. STILL after SIX MONTHS!! That's your doing. No one ever said it had to be fair either. He has moved on, you need to do the same. Stop thinking about him, focus on yourself. Keep yourself occupied. 1
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Hands up those who now have that song earworming them..... 5
scorpio1978 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I know you're hurting, but don't message him any more. The more you pay attention to the situation, the more awkward you are making it. it's not awkward for him at all. He has moved on and is with someone else. If you ever run into him again, do not talk to him. There is no need to. Don't look at him, don't talk to his new GF, don't do any of that. You need to move on. I am sorry.
Sandy99 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 The next time you see this guy anywhere, turn around and walk away, whether you are in a bar, or anywhere, the post office. Just disappear. You should have left that bar when you saw him there. Don't worry about it being awkward to leave. It's going to cause you a lot of pain seeing him with his girlfriend. Just try to stay as far away from him as possible. Good luck.
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