King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 There's this woman who comes to my math class, she sits in front of all the desks directly across from a student she's with (the student is deaf, I've actually helped her out a few times) So this woman must be in her mid 20s, and she is beautiful. I got to see her feet when she was sitting in the air moving her leg in a motion and one of her shoes fell off. Me and this woman have made very brief eye contact a few times, and I got excited from her coming to the student lounge to ask if the Instructor was having class today. So my question is, how can I "arrange" a situation where I can respectfully ask to either A) Rub her feet Or B) Tell her she has pretty feet Or C) both Can any of them be done or is it impossible? I have a crush her, she is beautiful. But I think she has a ring on the finger (though I have not been able to confirm if its just some dress ring, so whether or not she's single is kind of up in the air)
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 No, it's not worth the effort. If anyone approached me with such a request/suggestion, I'd immediately think they were a weirdo. 2
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Well of course I have to work my way to it, Can't just come out and say it
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 No. It's still not a good idea. It would be far better to find someone who you already KNOW is like-minded. Did you investigate that website link I sent you, yes or no?
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Yes, matter of fact I have. Have not had any luck yet. How come you're always mad at me?
jba10582 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I get a kick out of this post . However as TM said above, it probably would come across as odd at first. AND, Because many people will not share your taste exactly, it's is not THAT strange... So, in a relationship setting there will be plenty of females that would like to have their feet rubbed (maybe after a hard days work/ or stressful day, whatever..), ALTHOUGH, they may not share your sexual interest in that regard...I do believe that when a woman loves you, she'll go along with this...as its not THAT much of a sacrifice to have you feet rubbed. . I still think a foot is a foot though. Good luck man! 1
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Yes, matter of fact I have. Have not had any luck yet. How come you're always mad at me? Where do you get that I'm mad at you?
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Where do you get that I'm mad at you? Because on my posts like this it seems like you're being aggressive at me like I'm a sick person It just seems like you get mad at me easily
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I get mad at dumb questions when the asker doesn't seem to have thought the consequences through. If you spent a couple of moments thinking on your dilemma, you wouldn't need to ask the question, I don't think. it's very specific to your tastes, and other people are a complete unknown. And I have never said, implied or considered your proclivities or persuasions to be those of a 'sick person'. You have a fetish that, if presented to someone out of the blue, will appear to them, to be 'weird'. I've met 'weirder', believe me. 1
iris219 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Because on my posts like this it seems like you're being aggressive at me like I'm a sick person It just seems like you get mad at me easily Taramaiden wasn't being mean; she was being honest. If a random guy ask to rub my feet, I'd think he was psycho. If he told me I had pretty feet, I'd simply think he was weird. Neither one is worth being labeled negatively. 1
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 I get mad at dumb questions when the asker doesn't seem to have thought the consequences through. If you spent a couple of moments thinking on your dilemma, you wouldn't need to ask the question, I don't think. it's very specific to your tastes, and other people are a complete unknown. And I have never said, implied or considered your proclivities or persuasions to be those of a 'sick person'. You have a fetish that, if presented to someone out of the blue, will appear to them, to be 'weird'. I've met 'weirder', believe me. I may think it through, but sometimes, a lot of times actually, it isn't good enough. And the Input I get on here contributes a lot to these kinds of things and sometimes gives me insight I either didnt know about or didnt think was important. I'd be willing to be you have pretty feet
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Taramaiden wasn't being mean; she was being honest. If a random guy ask to rub my feet, I'd think he was psycho. If he told me I had pretty feet, I'd simply think he was weird. Neither one is worth being labeled negatively. I see what you mean
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 This is the second time you've alluded to my having pretty feet. Now That - is being weird.
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Damn it I just can't help it!!!!!!!
ThatMan Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Look... You mustn't wear your fetish on your sleeve. Just because you get off on feet doesn't mean that it should be your first conversation starter. There needs to be at least some level of intimacy prior to bringing that up. At least try to be tactful. Even if you encounter new people who also enjoy feet I guarantee they'll still be creeped the heck out by a random stranger approaching them to ask about foot massages. 2
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Look... You mustn't wear your fetish on your sleeve. Just because you get off on feet doesn't mean that it should be your first conversation starter. There needs to be at least some level of intimacy prior to bringing that up. At least try to be tactful. Even if you encounter new people who also enjoy feet I guarantee they'll still be creeped the heck out by a random stranger approaching them to ask about foot massages. I see what you're saying. There should be a level of intimacy even if we have a good conversation and then I politely say she has pretty feet like someone would "you have pretty hair, etc" as a compliment ?
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 You need to be going steady with a girl for a couple of months maybe, before you admit you "have a thing" about feet. Hopefully, hers will be pretty enough to entice you, rather than ugly, bunion-ridden, ingrowing-toe-nailed gnarled monsters that will turn you off completely....
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 You need to be going steady with a girl for a couple of months maybe, before you admit you "have a thing" about feet. Hopefully, hers will be pretty enough to entice you, rather than ugly, bunion-ridden, ingrowing-toe-nailed gnarled monsters that will turn you off completely.... To me, a girl I date must have pretty feet. If not, I feel like something is missing
gaius Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 If I were you I'd just make up a BS story about how you're studying to be a massage therapist and need practice. But ThatMan is right, you need to establish some kind of repoire with a woman first before she would feel comfortable enough to even consider that. You really are lucky enough to have one of those fetishes women can't tell are sexual for you right off the bat. I like women with nice hair so stuff like the shampoo thread from the other day is a godsend for me. 1
Author King Bowls Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 If I were you I'd just make up a BS story about how you're studying to be a massage therapist and need practice. But ThatMan is right, you need to establish some kind of repoire with a woman first before she would feel comfortable enough to even consider that. You really are lucky enough to have one of those fetishes women can't tell are sexual for you right off the bat. I like women with nice hair so stuff like the shampoo thread from the other day is a godsend for me. I like beautiful hair on women too. But not as much as a stunning pair of feet haha 1
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 If you guys are going to compare fetishes... ...Get a room, huh?
gaius Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 If you guys are going to compare fetishes... ...Get a room, huh? How come you didn't post in the shampoo thread?
gaius Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 bald women don't need shampoo. Oh come now. I'm studying to be a hair stylist you know. See Bowls, a repoire with women, even if it's advesarial is good to have. 1
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