HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Men sometimes! So you and him are dating, he's into you, so what would be the difference in your dynamic together if you were official? nothing really. You would continue seeing each other the way you are doing, right? and still taking your time to get to know each other. The only difference would be that he'd have to stop advertising himself as being single, and that he doesn't want, he wants to keep his options open and wants to be view by other women as single. It comes down to how much you are willing to gamble. To me, if after 5-6 dates a man still doesn't know if he wants to be exclusive with me then it's because I did not grab his heart. Most men I dated and were into me asked for exclusivity after our 3rd date. They feared too much someone else would get my attention, they wanted me off that market to get a chance to impress me. Exclusivity is not a marriage, it's not moving in, it's simply saying I will concentrate on you only from now on. If it doesn't work then we will part ways. What's scary in that? Totally spot on x
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Sounds like he's either not into you or has some emotional baggage screwing up his mind. Either way this wouldn't be something I'd want to deal with/see as LTR material. 2
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